Honestly, who do you trust? like someone who you wouldnt lie to or someone who you can tell most if not all of you secrets or someone who cares about you enough to trust you. and why do you trust those people/that person or why does that person trust you?

well i dont put my trust into a lot of people, because im afraid of them like if i think they are trustworthy but they turn out not to be. i hate that.

some people would trust me i guess, most of my friends do anyway. because i would never laugh at their secrets or anything like that.

NOTE: there was supposed to be a pole with this. but it didnt show up.

well i like this thread and the people i would trust is four people yes four people and those people are Dillon - my best friend in the world we have been friends since we were 3 and we are 14 i would take a bullet for him. then Chrissy - she is amazing she is funny sweet nice everything and i would trust her with my life. then the one and only Emily W - she is the greatest thing in the world she is beautiful, smart, nice, funny, and she gets me she is lovely and i would do any thing for her. then there is Hannah she is amazing she is the best words can't describe. she is just great. not much else to say we get along so well and she is super nice and we are like perfect i would trust her with anything...ok well i feel kind of weird so bye...

Thank you Robert! i trust you too, for all the same reasons, your the best haha honest! ive never lied to you, and i dont plan to either. i trust you with all the secrets in the world. i also would trust Crystal a.k.a. imtherealluna* shes great haha. and my close friend Andrea, ive known her for like 3 years, i love her and trust her even if i dont tell her everything, almost everything though. i love these people as friends and i trust them with almost anything.

My gosh I used to trust a lot of people but recently I have lost that trust in them.
I trust my close firend who I have known since I was 2, though there are somethings which I haven't come round to telling her. And I sometimes I trust my other mate at school to tell her things that are getting on my nerves but I dont really fully 100% trust anyone.

yeah HP number one fan i know what you mean. i mean i cant come around telling my school friends some things. like who i like or something like that. its not that i dont trust her, i do honestly. just i dont know, i havent tried telling her, we dont tell each other everything, but i trust her enough to realize that we both keep some secrets from each other, but not huge ones. id like to keep it that way, so that *if* she ever spills my secrets [which she wont, but 'if'] i wont fall as hard. but yeah you should try to find someone to trust, if you know them well enough. i found three people i trust, Robert, Crystal, my close friend Andrea [which is not the one im talking about by the way. but we dont tell each other everything either, but i trust her]. Andrea is like super awesome, she has my back, i love her, but we dont hang out as much because she's older than me [yeah by like a year] and she hangs out with her other friends. but we talk on a weekly basis, and once in a while walk to our homeroom classes together, we have different ones, but they are sort of in the same area.

haha. i trust my friends.
Aimee (*pretty in punk*)
Jazzanie (got harry?)
Jamie
Hannah ( Fall_Out_Girl)
Ian
Jose


okay, now these are reasons why i trust these peeps!
I've known aimee, since 5th grade (were in 9th now), and she is just really cool. and she doesn't fake!
I've known Jazzanie, since 6th grade. she was cool, and weird like me.
I met Jamie in 7th grade, and actually she's just really cool, and cares about everyone!
Hannah!!!!! hannah has the same obbssessions as i do! *cough* fall out boy & harry potter*cough*
and also there are peeps (aimee, jazzanie, jamie, hannah) out there that you trust automatically. for some reason.

Ian.... haha.... ian... he's the most funniest person i have ever met. i've know him since 5th grade also. i can trust him... most of the time.....

i've know Jose since 6th grade, and he was one of my best frinds that year. he's still a good friend of mine, and i still trust him.

ha, you people are the best ever!
for real. the best people ever!!!! (except for maybe, Ian! lol. )


Crystal

To be honest, I trust many different people. Mostly my friends.
Michelle: my best friend who I can tell anything to, she's totally awesome.
Monique: a really good friend that can keep secrets and is always there for me.
Katie: She's totally hilarious, and always has a positive attitude.
Jake: He's soo funny! Always trys to embarrass us in every way possible but is still really great.
Kellan: I've known her since the beginning of life, she's been my friend forever, but I moved away from where she lives. But I can trust her.

yeah i see we trust mostly people that weve known for a long. ive never trusted anyone long time ago...so i the longest ive trusted someone is 3 years. i noticed...no one has put that they trust their parents...haha.

I have to say that I trust people who I have known for a long time...For me,it just seems natural...I know this will sound really corny, but I trust my mom alot and I tell her almost everything and she has the best advice!The sucky part is that I have only been in a new school for a year and 3/4's and its quite hard to say who I trust!I trust my best friend bianca( Flumsy) as she has the same interests as me and we can relate quite well I have made a lot of friends,but the only thing is that I don't trust people that easily as I don't really know who they are deep inside and from what I have seen and heard, I can't tell the people in my group of friends anything that is personal as they have the tendancy to judge people and talk behind other people's backs...

It really sucks as I basically have a handfull of people who I can really trust, if you know what I mean...

omg! how could i forget Joey!!!!!

i completely forgot about him...

i've known him since 7th grade!


he's cool, but sometimes he can get really annoying! lol. i can trust him with almost anything.

Crystal

Well trust is a big thing. You put your deepest thoughts and secrets into someone else's mind too.
Well, there is one girl I really trust, probably because I've know her since she was born a few months after I was and we are still friends thirteen years later! There is another girl I have know since we were two and I trust her as well. Trust deffinately increases over time.
I only trust really two boys, probably because I find it harder to tell guys how I feel about something but when I do tell them, I know one of them at least, has never told a soul except when I told him I could about one of them.
I trust heaps of my other friends and even some of my teachers, who in turn, trust me back. This is the same as my parents and family.

yeah i see most of us trust our closest friends. i dont really tell my family everything, so they really dont have a good idea of whats going on in my life [other than school stuff]. Caitlin In Australia, i know what you mean, i too find it harder to talk to guys about personal lives, thats why i only trust Robert [thats Harry_Ginny777 in case any of you havent figured it out yet], hes easier to trust, unlike most of the boys i know.

Wow, I don't know anyone on this website. Well, I have never met them or anything, I didn't know you guys all knew eachother. About people I trust, I trust Brittany, she is my best friend in the entire world! Then Paige, I moved away but we still talk and I can tell her anything. Oh, and Lauren, she is my go to person because she is the only one I know I can tell anything to and she'll be awesome about it. I don't really have an guy friends that I can totally trust, but I can trust mt little brother. He use to be a blab, but I know I can trust him now. Basically, I trust all the people I have known forever because I do agree that trust comes over time.

HP_RULES!, to be honest, i havent met anyone on here outside of the internet. were just PM buddies. but even if i just know Crystal [imtherealluna*] from being PM buddies here and MySpace and Robert [Harry_Ginny777] from being PM buddies, i trust them with probably anything.

i have never known anyone forever [well aside from my family], but i trust people anyways. but there was this girl ive went to school with like in 2nd and 3rd grade before i moved, we were "best friends". i trusted her, but i figured out she just took advantage of me, because of the things i had, and she wanted. and every time i gave her something, she just wanted more and more. so since then, ive never trusted many people. actually...i dont have a "best friend", just really close friends that ive known for what...like 3 or 4 years maximum. i tell them *most* things...just not everything.

I got it, but it is still pretty cool! I am sorry that your friend betrayed you, that's horrible! I am kind of like you, I have this group of really close friends too. If someone asked me my best friend I would say Brittany, but that's because I see her the most so we get to hang out more. She is in more of my classes so I see her throughout the day. Actually, I kind of have a trusting people problem. There are only two people I don't trust, but I obviously don't trust everyone with my deep, dark secrets. Well, I am glad that you got to be so close with people from this forum!

yeah totally, its great i got to meet them, they are awesome. well thanks for your sympathy, i used to go along with it...but then it got out of hand, i started crying often because of that, but yeah im over it. its just that i dont a lot of people easily, so i have to get to know them and all. trust is something that takes time. yeah me too...i also have a problem with trusting people with secrets...i trust like one of my closest friends only, and well of course Crystal and Robert, and thats like it. no teachers, family, nope. just these three. yeah well youll probably soon be close enough to trust someone from these forums!

i trust alot of people with different things...i trust one of my friends with secrets that could hurt alot of people because i no if it is serious that she wil keep it to herself, but if its something as trivial as who i like i cant trust her because she cant keep her mouth shut about things like that...my other friend how ever i can trust with everything and i know that she would only tell somebody my secret if i was in trouble and i needed help in which case i would probably thank her latter on for doing it.

[font=Verdana] This may soung weird but i trust my cats, shadow and bella. I know they won't tell my secrets, so thats safe with them, and I vent to them, and I know they won't go into school the next day gossiping about me. That doen't mean I don't tell my friends stuff, I do, but i don't know thats just me.

Trust. It depends about the information I am trusting them with. If it is just like a crush or a thought about someone who I dislike, I would easily tell my five main friends who I always hang out with and won't hesitate to trust. But other things, like my deep dark secrets, things I wouldn't be comfortable talking about (not that I have many), those I keep to myself or express through poetry.

well, I trust a lot of people with different things...but if you break my trust... you will probabaly end up being on my bad side for the rest of eternity (no pressure)...and no...I don't share my deep thoughts or secrets with anyone...not even my family...I usually just ignore them & push them away...

I was just about to log off when I came across this thread and I just had to put my 2 bobs worth in.

Trust - Well I trust only myself. And then sometimes I let myself down too. Some times I have something I feel is important and need to ask for help or just tell someone and i struggle with who to tell. I have close friends and children that I can talk to but there are some things I can not share with anyone. Allowing trust in another person allows you to share your thoughts or feelings and get an opinion back.

But ultimately, you have to trust yourself. Heavy I know but important. I guess that real question is, are you worth trusting?

mrs hagrid

i find it hard to trust people.

i do not trust anyone 100% and i mean anyone and everyone.
i think if you make the mistake of trusting someone more than .... 65% then they can let you down, you can let them down and they can turn on you. a lot of people (apparently friends) had my trust and just because i got down they all thought different of me and well i don't trust half of them.
i can't trust anyone... it's my thing... i just can't because something bad always happens.

they leave
they are annoyinglg clingy
they do something to go against everything you thought ... don't know if you will get that one...
or they just change

and that's the thing, people do change so i never want to make the mistake of trusting someone. even myself.

Well trust is a very powerful word. Because peopel can slip out of trust easliy there aren't many people i trust. except my family and a friend of mine after today. I have learnt i can trust very much. But not many people do i trust.

Well Trust is a pretty big word,even if it is only five letters. Well trust (to me anyway) is being able to tell someone anything and everything and knowing that they will not only keep it to themselves and not judge me. I guess i kinda trust my mom but only with certain things. The two people that i really trust would be my best friends Dan and Ruthie i can tell them anything and i know that no matter what they stick by me( so far they have anyway) I don't member who but someone once said that its better to be trusted than loved , call me crazy but i believe that. I mean there will be plenty of people who will love you but how many can actually say that they trust you with anything.
Blah i dont know i mean i guess I'm trusted by my friends, we share almost everything with each other, and I'm not really sure if theres such thing as 100% trusting someone, but me and my friends are pretty close to that.

Lol this question made me think alot.

I don't trust anyone except my parents.My mother is the only person to whom I share my deepest secrets.No other person other than my mother can understand me.The deepest secrets does include crushes..My friends are not trustworthy.Some can be trusted but who knows when they might babble everything.I myself did babble out one of my friend's crushes to others.And you know that was the end of our friendship.I really can't control my mouth ,you know..

I'm the kind of which you've got to earn trust, so I don't trust a lot of people...
Well, everyone I know trusts me,- ironic, isn't it?? -... I guess that's because I'm loyal, I'm transparent (in the sense that what you see is what you get) and honest (I'm not afraid of speaking my mind)

I only trust one person that I know completly, and I have known him for about 11 years (I am 15, so most of my life), he is the only person that I know has never lied to me, or others. I find it real hard to trust people because a persons favorite thing to do, in my opinion, is lie to you.

trust is such a big word.. and it is a matter that can get complicated easlily in my book. trust... i do not trust any one 100%... i have learnt not to from life.
people change. you change. matter change. life changes. it is unpredicable... and so are people. we never really no someone. all their thoughts and deepest feelings... therefore i can't trust them. i don't want to know everything and i don't demand to but trust is just my thing... just a thing i can't do....

Hmm... well I obviously trust my family with my life. Well, actually I wouldn't trust my brother with something personal... But I usually trust friends based on their personality. For instance, if someone likes to joke around a lot (like me) I probably wouldn't trust them with big secrets. But if someone seems sincere and friendly, like a few people I know, I sort of know that I could probably trust them.

Trust is a huge issue for me. I think i can trust my friends yet i keep secrets from them. Trust is a very fragile thing, and easily broken. I dont even trust myself a lot....

Trust is very important in life. I've always believed in trusting people until they give you a reason not to. Once they have broken my trust, I won't trust them as far as I can throw them. It takes a long time to build that trust back up once they've lost it. I believe in second chances, so I will give them the opportunity to prove themselves again-but like I said it takes a long time to get it back to where it was. If they break my trust a second time, that's it. I won't have anything to do with them again.

Of course, family is different. They are your family. I forgive and forget much faster where my family is concerned and give many, many chances. Friends come and go but your family is forever. Otherwise, I wouldn't have any family left, either. I would have disowned my mother a hundred times over!

Without trust, though, you can't have a relationship with someone. It's a key ingredient (along with communication) for a lasting commitment.

For the most part, I'm a very trusting person. I like to be able to trust someone because that means that I can talk to them freely and I love to do that. The people that I trust most are:

My closest friends
My drama teacher
My mom
My boyfriend

Hmm... trust; what do I have to say about trust?

Well I think that it's something that people give too often and don't think it through enough. I'm awful yet good at trusting people. I'm good because it's so hard to earn my trust, but I'm awful because you really have to do a lot to really let me trust you. Once someone's done something that makes me question their trust, they can garuntee they aren't getting it back.
The people I trust includes my grandma, my great grandma, my uncle, and my best friend. Plus I guess you could add my mom somewhere at the end there.

I don't trust that many people very much. The only people I think I truly trust at all are my friend Sarah and my mom and older sister. My mom generally gets on my nerves because she sometimes has this selfish, witchy attitude, and my sister can be really mean sometimes and will make fun of the music and clothes I like, etc., but when it comes down to it I obviously care about them and trust them. My friend is a really good listener. If I just want to talk about stuff that's really personal to me I trust that she won't tell anyone, and she doesn't.

I don't trust that many people. It also takes a while for me to trust someone I think trust should be earned. That being said the only people I really trust are my family members and close friends.

I've always had trouble tusting people, because every secret i've told ends up all over the school.
But I trust my bestie so much, I can tell her everything! And she always listens.
LLP

I would trust anyone. If I hang around certain people and they seem untrustworthy, then I won't tell them anything. I trust my friends, and my friends obviously trust me (we went around the table saying who we trust the most and everyone said me ) Yeah, I would only tell certain people certain things. But my friends I trust the most, I trust my family, I just don't tell them anything because they would send me to a counsler (My mom sent me to one because I was 'leing to her' yeah right!!).

I trust my friends S and J and my sister W.I can tell her anything.i do trust my parents even though they will end up yelling at me.Sometimes it's easy for me to open up to people,but others it can take a long time.

I find it hard for me to trust people with things that are really important to me. The only person I trust with everything is my BFF. I can tell him anything. He would never make fun of me, and he is the only one that always understands. I think it is really important to have someone like this, no matter who you are. Someone you can talk to no matter what.

Trust is very important, in family, friendship, relationships, and with everything. I am very truthful. I believe that people should always speek their minds. If they dont think something is pretty, and if they are asked if they think its pretty, then say no that you dont like it! people are always lying, saying ohh yes that is really lovelly, and then they go home and they think omg that was the most ugiest thing.

Trust is an important thing that takes years to build up, and then seconds to break. I think it is really important to have trust, in family and in friends. My best friend is who I trust the most, and same with my family. I love them all, and my best friend who is <3<3harry, I share trust with her that I don't share with anyone else which is really cool!

trust... everyone needs to be able to trust... there are only a few people i can say i trust immensely!
i trust my family, they're one of the things that you have to trust, no matter what! they're one of the most solid things in my life!... but out of everyone, my brother is one of the people i trust the most! i'd trust him with absolutely anything!
then there are a select few of my friends!... one girl, i've only been close to her for a few years, but our friendship was basically made on trust, we would never have been such good friends if she hadn't of confided to me the one time she needed a shoulder to lean on! i was one of the only people there at one of her hardest times of her life, and at that point we had barely spoken to each other! but i would like to think i helped her through her hard time and thats what made us such good friends in such a short amount of tme! her trust in me that i wouldn't go and tell everyone what she was going through! and i am so grateful that she could trust me otherwise i would have missed out on such an amazing friend!
kc

I don't trust many people. The only people I trust with my secrets are my two best friends. Of couse, i trust my family, but not in the same way. I just find it really hard to trust people.

Okay so now I am replying a long time ago from when I last responded to this...
I trust my friend Chris, more than life.
He's one of my best friends and I love him, I trust him with my life and soul.
and my best friend michelle.
They're the only people I trust right now.

Hmmm trust. An interesting topic! I'm one of those people who trust everyone and no one at the same time. I trust the people around me to always consider their actions in relation to me, like, I trust them to have my best interests at heart etc before they say something, when they may not necessarily, just as an example. So I suppose as a protection act from those that don't have my best interests at heart, I don't trust people with my feelings etc. But then I haven't really had all that many 'big' feelings in my life so far to share with people. And I'm not one of those people who just feel the need to share everything that's going through their mind.

Ugh, that sounded really weird and corny.

I have a fairly large list of people I trust:

-My parents (obviously).
-My twin sister Leila.
-My friends: Monique, Madeline, Michael, boyfriend James ... all of them.

Who do I trust?

My best friend Dana Komyathy that I love as a sis. We've helped eachother get over boys that have dumped us. And she is currently NOT helping me with my problem.

My best friend Chelsea Anson. She rocks the socks.

My really close guy friend, who is just a friend, Ryan. He rocks, so cool and understanding. He listens to all my problems and really means what he says when he's comforting me.

I know that I have recently begun to NOT trust some certain people on AIM and texting because of a recent joke played on me from one of my "friends"-and ex boyfriends-screen name. It turned out that it was HIS best friend that was on line not him. So now I only talk to certain people on AIM and blocked my ex-boyfriend, his friend, and some other people that think their jokes are funny.



Potters Princess

I trust two people more than anyone else in this whole world. And they are...

Kaylea , my sister. I trust her cause she is my sister and she is always honest and understanding with me and we have a good relationship.

And last but not least...
Mrs. McPhee , my math teacher. I trust her just because of the simple reason that I love her more than anything in the whole universe and beyond. I trust her with my life and respect and willingly submit to her more than anyone else on planet earth.

And that's them.

I can trust my older brother really well, we can tell each other everything. I trust him because I know that he wouldn't tell anyone what I told him if I didn't want him to. He is honest, understanding and is trustworthy, even if we don't get along I still trust him.

People have t earn my trust. I usually don't trust people whom I've just met, and would still be hesitant about trusting them, even after a few months. I would trust my best friend of 14 years, with my whole life. I know she wouldn't screw it up There are a few others I trust, but most people have to know me at the very least, a year, before being brought into my "Trust Circle".