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I think I like Austen's men more than the women sometimes!
|Now it's funny that yu should say this, because I always found the men easily lead, a bit hen pecked and definitely afraid of their mothers! With one exception.
Let's look at our heros, Edward Ferrars, a bit of a wimp in my view. Because muumy wants him to marry a woman of means, he doesn't tell Elinor how he feels. I mean a bit of back bone, he could have said, "Look live, I've got the hots for you but I secretly engaged to this silly girl and I can't break a promise. Besides which mummy would go bonkers is she found out, which she will, and when she does, I'll give you a call". No, he waits until said fiance dumps him for his brother and takes an eternity to get it on with Elinor, I'd have kicked him to the kerb!

(I'll come back to Colonel Brandon)
Then we have Charles Bingley, what a school boy! Totally smitten with Jane from the get go, but because his sisters and best friend think she's a bit beneath him, or appears not to reciprocate his feelings he kicks her to the kerb. Why didn't he ask her for himself...twit?
(Mr Darcy..later)
Edmund Bertram, supposedly Fanny Prices friend, doesn't know she fancies him...yeah. He flirts with Miss Crawford and poor Fanny who has known and loved Edmund all her life has to accept it, even when she knows that treacheryand scandal is afoot. Why are these men so blind?
Henry Tilney...well I'm not sure about him, I always though he was too old for Catherine Moorland from day one, but he was ok I guess.
Capt. Frederick Wentworth....Get over it man, he could have got in touch with her before the eight years. Surely he knew that it was all about the money?
George Knightley, I think was very patient with Emma so I liked him.
Colonel Brandon, never faltered did he? Was taken with Marianne from day one and stood by her through thick and thin...pretty good hero in my mind.
And of course Mr Darcy....apart from being an interferring busy body, he was true to himself I think. He never hit his feelings either positive of negative...you got what you got. Straight as a di...
My favourite...it's a toss up between Colonel Brandon and Mr Darcy.
As for females...I like Elinor Dashwood, and Anne Elliot..and Lizzie Bennet...I can't choose