No I do not have a girlfriend. I am 28.

*is very much available*

But seriously, any particular reason why you don't? By choice or just not found anyone interesting yet?

Yes, yes I do, she frequents this forum, in fact, Sabrina_Rose_Snape

Last time I posted here I was with James and that last for about a year until everything went downhill and honestly I’m not sad about it. He moved back home you see and I fall for someone at college so it would have never worked out which I’m happy about because it lead me to my boyfriend now Hi OverFjell - watch out for those short posts. My last boyfriend turned out to be someone I didn’t know and he upset me a lot but thankfully I had a knight in shinning amour, that’s you Kurt!

No, i've never had a boyfriend. Considering i'm 17, it's almost pathetic. It's mainly just been because the guys i've liked never liked me, and the total amount of guys who openingly liked me are three. Yeeeah. And considering one now goes out with my best friend, the other likes practically every girl in the school, and the others' name was "Creepy Stalker Guy", it's kind of no wonder.

I'm not convinced i'll ever find someone, but i'm ok with that. I've grown up with my Grandma (who was cheated on by her husband and has been by herself for about 50 years) telling me that woman don't need a man to be happy, and that i'm perfectly capable by myself. I believe her in a way, but if i do somehow manage to find someone, i'll be more than happy.

Lol at "too young"! Since when did that stop children having boyfriends/girlfriends, having sex and getting pregnant? Then again, I live in Scotland so maybe it's just in this country you hear that kind of stuff all the time.

I don't have a boyfriend right now. I'm single and love it so much more than being in a relationship. You get to do whatever you want without someone getting jealous and overly possessive. You can actually see your friends whenever you want without being interrogated. My last boyfriend was an a**hole.

Wow, a lot of us are actually single! Imagine that!

As for me, nope, I don't have a boyfriend. We broke-up mid December last year. So I'm single and LOVING IT!

I don't really like being single, but i'm mostly ok cause most of my friends are single. One of my mates (who is a boy) is obsesed with me. He fancies me like crazy. I don't fancy him and i have let him know this. He is practically stalking me now, and it's starting to creep me out

I wouldn't bode well in a relationship.

Something about being near-virulently narcissistic, cynical, opinionated and politically obsessed. That and I vote Liberal (something semi-frowned upon in my area).

So that would be why I am single. Though it is best - I am married to what I do.

-thesolitaryone-

(really couldn't be a more fitting name... even though I came up with it four years ago before I had even discovered politics)...

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months
How we got together is rather adorable, if I do say so myself.
We were leads in the school musical, the Nifty Fifties, together. We to sing a love duet, waltz, and be partners in about 5 dance numbers.
I remember seeing him at the first rehearsal...
He is amazing.
AND he's English! I'm Australian, you see. So anyone I meet who is remotely English, I am drawn to at once!
He really is MY Tom Felton.

I had a boyfriend. It lasted for about 4 months. But that went downhill and now I'm single. I like it like this tbh and I don't think i'll be dating for a long, long while

-Sarah<3

No, i don't have a boyfriend... though i have many crushes. I cant help it. i'm never able to really commit though, because whenever i go out with someone... i kindof get scared that they wont like me (and i see the possibilities in other people) so i break up with them.... I guess that's really lame...

I have a boyfriend and I'm beyond happy and content. I love him with all my heart. And it's funny how we started going out. So we met when I was in 10th grade and he was in 12th and we had a class together. but it didn't start out that way. The class I had was psychology but for different period. So did he. Then I had to change a class and so did he apparently.

Fast forwarding. So we talked as friends and I never saw him in any way. I liked him a little in May of '08 but I shook the idea away because he was going to graduate the month after and I had already had a bad experience with a senior the yr before. He then also admitted to me that he too liked me but as i said, i shook the idea away.

Months passed and we AIMed through the summer and text. I had a boyfriend for 2 months and we still talked but not like interested. As friends. It wasn't until March of '09 that I finally thought what the hell. With the amount of times he asked me to hang out I finally gave in and did. And it continued like that for weeks.

Until finally on April 24 2009 he asked me out on a date. I said yes and kept an open mind. but i already started to like him then. It was on our way home from the movies at 1:30 in the morning of April 25th that he asked me to be his girlfriend that I said yes the smartest decision on my part EVER.

Now, next thursday it'll be our 10 month anniversary <3 and I've never been more in love in my life. I honestly believe that he could be THE one. I can see myself spend my life with him.

We broke up once but got together and quite frankly, we were made for eachother <33

4.25.09<3

I don't. As a matter of fact, I've never had a serious relationship. I am a VERY insecure person and I don't think anyone likes or will ever like me. When I like some guy, I never have the guts to tell him because I believe he will think I am ugly or stupid. It's a kinda shallow way of thinking but that's who I am. I'm 17 and I would like to have a boyfriend, but I don't mind not having one. Anyway I have very high standards in boys.

i use to think that too. but remember what you think of yourself reflects on your face. it's ok to be insecure a little but remember you're worth a lot more than what any guy tells you. chances are the ones that do tell you something mean, are the ones that rarely get girls because of that nasty attitude.

if you don't think about getting a boyfriend, it'll show up unexpectedly. i promise it'll happen. it might be that in your school the guys aren't worth it. which was my case because my boyfriend graduate 2 years before me, and in between that time no other guy caught my eye. it had to be out of school

Thanks nicky potter, it was a real boost of confidence. Seeing that someone cares is comforting. I know I should feel good about myself and that the fact that I'm not is reflected on my face, but I don't really know how to do that. I just hope my day will come, sooner or later .

just have a good head on your shoulders and awesome friends (: go out and live it up. you're only young once. I too use to wonder how am i going to make myself feel better, but when you're so occupied with things in life you barely remember. You and I are the same age i think and i didn't get my first boyfriend until i was 16 and right now im 17.. that relationship only lasted 2 months.. but because i had a relationship at all i got it out of my system about this whole "i need a boyfriend" nonesense. and i never thought about getting another one until 3 months later my current one came into the picture.

and that's it.. that's all the relationships i've ever had. right now, what you probably need is a test boyfriend. it sounds mean but its true. you need to just get out of your system that need of a boyfriend and once you do you wont worry about it as much because after you'll be able to say yeah i've had a bf.

but truthfully, dont worry about it (: i've learned that there is someone for everybody. because im not going to lie, my bf may be perfect in my eyes, but not many girls would go out with him. but i did. so there IS someone, dont fret. it'll happen and i'll bet my LIFE on that one (:

you're worth a lot more than what you probably credit yourself dumbledore_girl (: