Don't worry too much Allie about not having a date, I didn't start dating until well after my 18th birthday. Love can be really complicated and it will happen to you when it is time. I spent 9 years in a relationship and it fell apart, so it truly is a matter of time.

I had a girl friend once. And its been two years since we broke. Actually i broke up with her. She is very beautiful indeed. But beauty isnt everything. She was very rude and she betrayed me!!! Actually i had a crush with her when i was in grade 7. And then when i was at grade 10. She knew it. And then we met in a ceremony. We talked a lot and then i found her number, started caalling her too. At the moment she had a bf. But he was in abroad. And she always tell me that he doesnt call to her and that she was very sad. I gave her advices and made her happy at the times she was sad. Then after 3 months her bf called her and they broke up! Well i was indeed very happy. Then i knew it was my time to tell her before anyone else does tel her. But i waited for other three months. The reason was to get close to her! So it took me totally 6 months time to tell her! Well so i told her and then.....................................it took 2 months for her to tell tha answer. actually she didnt say the answer. Instead she wrote a letter to me, saying this and that...........
After somedays i knew what she was doing. She started going with an other boy, and that boy was a friend of mine! haha. And thats how she got red handed. When i knew that i barely called her, the reason was when i call her she tells that she was busy and in other words she was ignoring me! When i broke up with her my heart was like coming out! I felt like horrible! Anyway thats how it ended. Well if anyone is intrested in seeing her i could show it. This picture was taken just 1 week before. She got first place in the competition. And in the picture she receives the prices from the president! You can see it here.

Nah, I dont have one... At least yet! I'm hoping someone will come along. ( My friends on here better not make fun of me GRRR , JK)

As of now, I don't have a girlfriend, nor am I looking for one. If a girl comes along, then maybe I'll check into it, but for now, I'd rather not have to worry about everything involved with a relationship.

Um.. wel I diont have a boyfriend currently.. I broke up with my ex avout a month ago because he was really posesive and jealous. He hated me to go out with my friends and whenever I was not with him he would call me every 5 minutes to check what I was doing... He hated me to be with my male friends like whenever I hugged or talked to any of them he would come and kiss me or just like get a fit and start talking about how we should brake up because Id rather be with a friend than him. The other day I just got really ****ed and told him it was a great idea and that we should brake up.. The look on his face.. Gosh.. that was worth a million bucks.. After that he started beging and whining about how he didnt mean it and stuff, really funny.. but anyway it was the best choice and today Im going on a first date with this really cute guy!! He said he has been waiting for a long time to akd me out.. How sweet!!

I don't have a boyfriend and I'm happy with it. My parents wouldn't let me have it anyway because they are way strict about boys. If we just have a guy friend come over, they'll get all upset and give everyone a talk. Anyway, we're stuck with the "no boyfriends until you're like done with college" rule because my older sister messed up by dropping out of high school for a boyfriend and so now my parents think we'll do the same if we ever have a boyfriend.
My sister in 7th grade has a boyfriend already and I think that's a bit young...although she won't listen to me I still think she's a tad young for a boyfriend. One thing about it is that they don't even know each other that well. He just had a "crush" on her and they just started "going out" behind my mom and dad's back and right now they don't even know each other that well. When he was asking her out, he didn't even know her name for goodness sake...anyway, now he knows her more but it's just stupid how they could actually start a relationship without knowing each other first.

my parents won't let me date until im 16, and they woun't let me have a steady relationship witha guy, until im 16 also. i guess that's life. im alowed to be friends with guys, and my mom doesn't care if i hang out with them. she knows im growing up, and that i'm not only going to be freinds with JUST girls.

Had a girlfriend recently but i dumped her about a month ago we got into an argument she said i cared more about myslef than i did about her i told that wasnt true... I cared more about harry potter than her. haha nah im just kidding i dumped her after 2 weeks of going out last month because call me all the names you can i got BORED of her.

.:IlEw.:

no, i don't have a boyfriend...yet. oh well, my parents won't let me date until i'm fifteen or sixteen or whatever anyways. they still think i'm a little girl who only has friends that are girls and i'm not thinking of guys yet. wrong. i have a couple of great friends that are guys and well they are the greatest guy friends i could ever have. i love them, not in a mushy gushy way, and if one of them ever falls for me, well, we'll see.

but a lot of guys always go for the pretty, superficial kind of girls who spend hours on their looks. i mean, people say i'm pretty, like one of my guy friends said that to me a couple of times, but just because i don't wear skimpy skirts and flip my hair and bat my eyes, well i don't get into relationships. oh well, i'm just waiting for that one guy who will love me for my personality and not my looks.

I don't, I think. Yeah, weird I know. I don't knowb what's going on between us, if there's something at all. So yeah, a nope for now.

I can't seem to keep any of my GF
they always start to like me amd then like some other
guy four days later. God girls confuse me!

I haven't a boyfriend for three weeks.
do you know a thing? I stay better alone

I had a girlfriend..she disapointed me very much..so since then(couple of months ago) i keep just "no obligation" relationships with girls..i put that in polite way

No i never had a boyfriend. I dont tend to like the guys that surround me. And sometimes its hard to think of guys as potential boyfriends because i grew up with boys. i have 3 older brothers, and i'm kind of a tomboy and that guys best-girl-friend thing. But yeah i'm waiting until HS, maybe they'll be a little bit mature...

but theres always this kid i know... =]

no, i don't have a boyfriend -and i never had one yet...
there just was not the right guy yet. and i'm not the sort of person that's hurrying in a relationship... so i'll just wait till there is the boy i really love... well, i'm 15 so that relationship will maybe not be forever *g* but i don't want to date someone new every week
so, maybe i'm expecting too much, but that's me

well i dont have a girlfriend right now but there is a girl i have my eye on i guess you can put it that way if you want. but yes i do like someone. but no i am sigle for all of you ladies out there haha that was funny. sorry but yeah this is the worst time not to have a girl friend because it is summer and stuff.

no sadly I dont, but hey thats leaves me open for all you Harry Potter girls... that would be a dream come true... haha thast probably not appropriate anyway.... cheerio

Well...I am married. Boring, huh? but believe me...if you marry the right person, it can be really cool...
I met my husband nearly 15 years ago, and the moment we shook hands I was already in love! After a month we got together, and we still are. Of course, when I met him I was already 22, I wasn't a kid! and we married after 6 years.
Anyway, one thing is love, another is building a solid relationship. We are lucky because we have a lot of things in common...but sometimes he drives me mad ! but I wouldn't change him for nothing in the world.

Witchmom )O(

Way to revive an old thread Witchmom!

I am sad to say that my status hasnt changed since my last post... Its not that I dont know how to talk to women... that isnt a problem at all... its just... well Im not sure what it is... I just dont have feelings for those who have feelings toward me... and when I do realize.. hey I actually kind of like that girl (who likes me) its always too late. Owell, in due time.... Some day I will wake up and not procrastinate haha.. until then ... Im free for the taking...

*holds 'for sale' sign eagerly*

(ignore that last line )

~Albus

Nope, no boyfriend here. I am outgoign with friends and strangers but not guys I "like". . .no way. I am so shy with crushes.
Any guy that likes me is just not my type. . .which is a bummer because I'm not picky about guys.

Hell no I don't have a gf... I'm not trying to do the commitment thing yet.. I just got out of a 2 year relationship and eh.. I'm just not quite ready to get a steady wifey type figure again yet lol. But I'm turning 17 in December so... after that I'll probably start considering it. TIL THEN IT'S FUN TIME! wee..

Yes I have a Boyfriend...
I am in 8th grade and we met in 3rd and then started going together in 5th grade and we broke up for a few months last year but we're back together now... But we have only been on 1 date and everyone I know says that pathetic but I don't care...

I've got one, but we're not mushy gushy like some fan-fics more like hang around together, talk relationship more. She's nice, but I don't think that our relationship will last for my whole life. I like fun people and she's fun but not active. I dunnnoooo it's so complicated

hahahaha na i'm on my own right now for some reason the girls i like seem to have boyfriends but i'm taking a small break from women

I haven't really had a boyfriend but there are THREE boys at school who fancy me, and I don't like ANY of them in that way. . .not my type you see. . .Plus I think the boys just have a crush not love it will go away before I know it Maybe one day I'll find someone who likes me that I like in that way Someone like me would be nice, meaning what they like. . .

lol i was reading what all of you posted and well what cani say you guys are young lol so am i, i don't have a boyfriend but there is a thing with a guy but i don't know so i'm pretty confused! i didn't start "dating" until i was 18 which in my opion was god i had the chance to learn about love lol i'm cupid for many of my friends but i guess cupid is meant to be alone
naaa but i'm ok with being single! i hated tht my las boyfriend was really controling i hated that! so i'm single yet confused

me....boyfriend.....relationship? Naaaaaa...i prefer being single, and living for myself. I just hate the idea of having a guy to tag around me wherever i go, it just seems quite annoying actually. Although i've been told that i have so-called 'secret admirers' (well, they're not secret anymore), i couldn't care less, they'll find another girl soon enough. So, as you may have noticed, i'm not into the whole dating network, cause' most guys you meet, are only there to check you out, which personally, i think is mega shallow.

I don't have a boyfriend and Im good with that. I can't even date until I'm 16 and im 15 now so...there really is no point since we can't go out unless he came over to my house or when we went out it would also be with my mother lol

~Lily

I'm 15 too, and my parents don't let me date yet either, but I have had a boyfriend before, it was like 2 days so it doesn't really count. I broke up with him because he wanted to invite me to his church and I knew my parents would get suspicious about a guy asking me to go somewhere without other friends, so....yeah it ended pretty quick. But I still like him and we are good friends. So, currently I'm Single and its great!

I'm fifteen as well and my parents won't let me date either! I've never had a boyfriend and some people may laugh at that, but I really don't like going out with people for the sake of saying "yeah i have a boyfriend". I sort of take love a bit seriously; I like things to be traditional in that sense...and if that meant breaking my parents rules for someone I love then so be it.
But I've never been asked out either. I don't think many of the guys at my school like me much! *laughs* they all like having quick relationships and I'm not into that really. I don't mind the single world really...its just hard coz I've liked the same guy for about a year now...eurgh so annoying im waaay too shy around crushes! With friends i'm so loud, but im just not confident around guys

I'm only 13 and i've never had a boyfriend, i have been asked out once but i turned the guy down because he was not my type. I don't like anyone though coz all the guys at my school i don't like coz they're losers. But at school there is a guy i know for a fact likes me and he keeps on hinting it to me. But i don't like him very much.

You should only go out with someone if you are ready. This boy for instance, he only came out to me that he was bisexual and that he fancied me and he became obsessed with me. Always wanting me to meet him, always wanting me to come online. I kept telling him I wasn't interested and that I loved my girlfriend but he wouldn't listen. He finally got the message when I shouted a little, a few swear words came out and telling him to get a life because he said he was thinking of splitting me and my girlfriend up and he has now left me alone . Now...me and my girlfriend are having trouble. We are both awkward around each other, and we have been going out for 2 months and we are still awkward, and not a normal couple way where we just talk to each other which we are not that confident with but it is a physical thing as well, we both get nervous everytime we try to kiss each other or huggle and stuff. Any advice on how we can become more confident with each other both emotionally and physically.

No, sorry I really don't have any advice to give you, except that if you can't feel comfortable around her, then the relationship probably won't work out. You want to be with someone who you won't feel awkward and nervous around. Yall should try talking to eachother and finding out eachothers interest and what you have in common.

Interesting story about the bisexual. That would have freaked me out with him becoming all obsessed and stuff.

Yeah, well I already said that my parents don't let me date. I think I'm ready for a boyfriend though, but I also don't really care because I don't think I really want one. Sometimes I do but most of the time I'm cool with just hanging out with a bunch of people and getting to know them. Guys have asked me out though, and I've always said no though I kinda liked them. I'm just scared of what my parents would think. My friends, except for a few of them, never talk to me about their boyfriends and their problems because they think that I wouldn't understand because I never really had one. Whatever, once they break up it's then that they want to talk to me about it. Me and my other lifetime single friends(which only leaves 2 now) will just make fun of them about it afterwards. Hehehe. Well, I've rambled enough, so I'll just end it at that.

haha. i posted here before...

anyways...my answer again is, at the moment, nope.

and i figured out, my mom wont let me date until i am 14. whats odd is that my dad, when i was asking if i could go to a concert, he was like, "oh sure, and you can bring your boyfriend too." haha...it was...odd. he says i am old enough to have a boyfriend...but my mom...is a bit overprotective of myself. so guys must wait a while, before we can actually go on a date.

though, its funny. i get asked for boy advice from a friend of mine, who has told me about who she likes in art class.

and i dont think im actually ready, yet, to have a boyfriend. so...yeah. happy being single right now

Well at the moment no I don't have one but there is a guy that I like and I think he likes me!!! he asked me what I wanted for valentines day!!!! anyway my parents told me that I could date 'til I was 16 but then I got a boy friend who was 16 and I was 14 and they let me go out on dates with him and stuff (btw it ended badly he was stupid and he wasn't a good kisser ) I don't usually stay in relationships long because I don't know what to do and I'm afraid I'll say something stupid but the weird thing is most of my friends are guys!!! (I hang out with the guys because they are less likely to stab you in the back..... at my school anyway!!;)) But I kinda enjoy being single because then you can hang out with whoever you want and don't have to worry about your boyfriend getting jealous!!

-Kelso

I'm thirteen and I don't have a boyfriend.It doesn't really bother me much because a boyfriend would distract me too much.My parents let me have a boyfriend but I don't think it will happen anytime soon.Also,I don't like any of the guys that go to my school.

I'm fifteen which is a little young to have a boyfriend for some people. But I"ve known the guy since I was about 7 and we were always good friends so it's not like it's just some guy who I think is cool. He's the only boyfriend I ever had so I never really experienced being dumped or dating around, but i'm glad I haven't yet. Maybe once I'm older because I'm pretty sure we won't stay together forever. So for now it's just nice to have him there for me.

I'm 13 and i don't have a boyfriend. I've never really had a proper one ... i go to an all grils school so is impossible for me to find one. we have socials with a boy school but we've only had two so far and i missed the last one as i was on holiday that weekend!
Sooo depressing - but i've learnt from experience that guys can be right gits *no offence * at this age, so i'm looking for someone nice !
.X.

I've had a couple of boyfriends, but it got very awkward, and we just broke off.
Sometimes I wish I had one, just to have somebody to fall back on and to rely on. But I think the guys in my school need to grow up first!

No i don't have a boyfriend. I am a bit too young. I think 15/16 is the ideal age to start dating cause then you know how to act responsibly. I am only 13 just by the way.

Well...i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me, so i dumped him, and yesterday at the dance a REALLY cute boy came up to me and asked me to dance, next thing i knew we were slow dancing and extremely close, the strange thing was, i was comfertable with him and he told me that he was in my math class and he always liked me, so he asked me to the movies, just got back, and obviously i said yes. and when the dance ended, he gave me a ride home and kissed me good-night on the cheek, but tonight the 'good-night kiss' was a little different...no questions asked.
by the way my birthday is in a couple of days, 8 to be exact, and i'm SO excited *jumps up and down* well see ya
~peace~
luv,
kitcatgurl13

Well...i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me, so i dumped him, and yesterday at the dance a REALLY cute boy came up to me and asked me to dance, next thing i knew we were slow dancing and extremely close, the strange thing was, i was comfertable with him and he told me that he was in my math class and he always liked me, so he asked me to the movies, just got back, and obviously i said yes. and when the dance ended, he gave me a ride home and kissed me good-night on the cheek, but tonight the 'good-night kiss' was a little different...no questions asked.
by the way my birthday is in a couple of days, 8 to be exact, and i'm SO excited *jumps up and down* well see ya
~peace~
luv,
kitcatgurl13

To be honest, boyfriends scare me. My friend was going out with this horrible jerk once, and all of her friends (including me) kept telling her what a jerk he was and that he didn't deserve her, and she always agreed when we said it, but then kept going out with him. He treated her terribly. Whenever she told him she wanted to hang out with her friends, or just stay home or that she didn't feel like talking to him, he'd tell her that she didn't love him and that he was going to go and cut his wrists or take drugs, and that it was her fault. She felt so terrible every time, and he did it ALL THE TIME. About a year ago they finally broke up, but she still talks to him And now he's telling her that SHE ruined HIS life! He did so many things that I don't even want to talk about... Argh he just makes me so angry!

Anyway, I don't have a boyfriend. I have a few friends that do have one or have had one, but I'm just not really confident enough to go out with someone. I think I'd run away if someone asked me out

I'm 15 by the way

Well, I don't have a boyfriend right now and I'm loving it. I live my life and do my thing, and don't have anyone to answer to.

This is a good thing because right now all of my free time is consumed with my children who are busy with sports and school and all that good stuff.

Sure I miss having another adult to talk to, or do things with, but that's why I have friends. My church is real good about being there for my boys and making sure they have enough 'guy bonding' time and every once in a while they'll take them camping or something like that.

I'm still young (28) so I'm not too worried about it. The right guy for me will come along and I'll just sit back and smile as I rock his world.

Although I am 13 and most girls I know have a boyfriend by that age, I don't!!! Like none of the boys like me and hardly any of them even speak to me!!! Well I am now going to make sure I get a boyfriend !!!

Well I’ve never had a serious boyfriend (Im 15) I don’t have one at the mo

Yeah, and most girls (at least around here) are pregnant before they enter the 6th grade, doesn't mean you need to get pregnant either. Just don't feel compelled to have a boyfriend, your only 13. I'm 16 (woot! finally) and I've only had one real boyfriend. The rest were just flirts. Don't be in such a hurry, there's nothing to look forward to.

"Girls are like apples, the best ones are at the top. And when a boy comes around, they see them up there and desperately try to reach them, but fail. So, they take the ones below, the rotten ones, the easy ones, and the girls on top think that there's something wrong with them when really, they are beautiful. One day, the right boy will come around who will take the risk, and not the easy way out. One day, that boy will pick you. Your on top."

A friend e-mailed that to me, and I liked it so just decided to post it here.

Oh my goodness! This is the most inspirational piece of writing I have ever read! I’m all choked up! Wow, you just made my self-esteem go up!

Do you mean you are going to try and get a boyfriend now because you've read about other people's relationships in this thread? I'm sure that's not what it's about, and just so you know, when I was 13 I didn't have nor want a boyfriend. Don't feel pressured to get a guy just because it's considered 'normal', as I pointed out in my previous posts, some guys are jerks. Never go out with someone just for the sake of it, go out with someone because you like them, they like you and you want to spend time together. It shouldn't be superficial, though most relationships between early teenagers are.

Yah, as little_aussie_witch92 said, dont feel pressured to have a boyfriend, even if all your friends do. I'm in a relationship now, acually. We've been together for almost three months (this saturday will be three ), but before now, I've never had a 'real' relationship before, and I love being with the kid I'm with now He doesn't get mad when I just want to hang out with my girl friends on a Friday night, or if I don't want to go out, we'll talk on the phone all night. and, I hung out with Sunday, and I was in my PJ's all day . I feel so comfortable with him, which I never have with anybody before.


But,HPfan#1, if you don't like a guy, don't date him. Don't feel like you have too just because everybody else is dating!

I think I've been single for 2 months, I say "think" because I KNOW I'm single but dunno when exactly it happened, my last girlfriend and I just seemed to become friends and stop going out as a couple. I'm kinda glad because I have a friend who I really like right now and have done for months, I just never get to actually saying it, which is a pain. Lemma say this, I could feel Harry's pain in the Goblet of Fire when he was trying to ask Cho out lol, I know exactly how he felts trying to get that damn question out!

One day soon I'll blurt it out .. I just hope an Owl doesn't hoot at the exact moment.