vivvo
Jan 9 2006, 03:57 AM
Harry does not like her anymore. It was shown in the fifth book. All she wants to do is sob about Cedric and get Harry and anyone else who would listen to feel sorry for her.
This is a bad pairing, ad should not happen again, unless she stops weeping...
weasley is my king
Jan 9 2006, 08:01 AM
this was a really bad pairing and cho was really weepy. i mean if your gonna go out with a guy then you really shouldnt talk about your old boyfriend. everyone knows that.
ashleigh07
Jan 9 2006, 11:21 AM
Hi vivvo

Now had you read the
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mysterious_witch
Jan 14 2006, 12:40 AM
i agree, Cho was soo depressing and boring! i mean talk about TOUGH love, but i still think harry & ginny all the way!
HPgoldsnitch
Jan 21 2006, 02:29 AM
OMG!! At fist I thought that Harry and Cho were really good together. But that was like at the beginning of the fith book end of the fourth. But UGGGG.... cho is the MOST boring, self centered, easily offended and can't take a joke girl I have ever read about. She is the biggest crybaby ever. Seriously, she's depressing... lol sorry, got a little carried away. But I am so glad that it didn't work out between them! I am a H/G shipper all the way!!
*dementor*
Jan 23 2006, 09:30 PM
I hate harry/cho. She is such a cry baby and wasted harry’s time for nothing.
Whats the point of liking someone so that you can get more information out of them about someone else….its dum…well not surprising since she is!
Well I will never support cho/harry because it is just so not right
stonesorcerer
Jan 23 2006, 10:12 PM
Cho/Harry... I could just say so many bad things about this it's incredible. Where to start? Harry just could not be comfortable around Cho. Even after they were going out he was still nervous and didn't know what to say or anything. Then there's Cho. She's just such a boring, weepy, crybabyish crybaby. She just couldn't get over Cedric, why bother even going out with Harry? Plus, the two of them couldn't really connect very well, it just didn't work out. I was all for Hary/Cho at first but then we actually saw what she was like...and it all went downhill from there.
Ginevra
Jan 23 2006, 10:48 PM
Harry and Cho are too embarrassed to look at eachother, so I think she's definitely out of Harry's love life(good riddance!).
ginevra
phoebe lovegood
Feb 1 2006, 02:59 AM
jkr has told a lot of times that harry/cho pairing had already stopped at the end of OotP and i agree to stop it..............................................
marauder5
Feb 3 2006, 08:01 AM
but Cho love Harry doesn't she? It's just wrong something about Cho, but Harry doesn't love her anymore you're right
xx.HermioneGranger.xx
Feb 5 2006, 03:49 AM
I agree. I was totally for Cho/Harry in the fourth book, but honestly, the fifth book really exposed her for what she was, well, what she was trying to do, which was somehow connect to her ex-bf Cedric through harry. I mean, don't you think he is already in agony after watching him die? does he NEED to have his GIRLFRIEND constantly presure him to talk about it, to explain how he died? its pathetic.
roonil_wazlib
Feb 6 2006, 01:45 AM
FINALLY! I've been waiting for an anti Cho/Harry thread for ages!!
I don't think that Cho is worthy of Harry - no one is, Cho least of all. Cho hasn't proven to be extrodinary or talented in any way. Okay, yes, she's a Seeker, so what? A very superficial Seeker at that. Ginny at least helps the Trio and she is twice as talented as Cho is on a broomstick.
Secondly, it seemed to me as though Cho was merely using Harry to her advantage in OotP. Like, all she wanted was to get info on Cedric's death.
She's an annoying little prick, in my opinion. I really do not like her.
Gwendy
Feb 6 2006, 04:01 AM
I'm surprised so many people didn't like her. I guess, for some reason, I thought I was the only one who really did not like Cho.

For some reason she always bothered me and knowing her true intentions after reading OOTP sort of exposed her for what she really was, which wasn't necessarily bad but, I thought she was rather immature and into Harry for all the wrong reasons. I'm glad that they are over with, although I honestly didn't think there was any chance of it working or becoming anything more than Harry's first "relationship".
Learn From This Mistake
Feb 19 2006, 08:04 PM
The problem with Cho and Harry's relationship is that there is nothing going on betweeen them...They just sort of think each other is cute. They DO have stuff that they could talk about, I mean, they both play the same quidditch positions, Cho is obviously quite bright, if she's in Ravenclaw...but the conversation always dwindles into uncomfortable pauses and ridiculous topics, like Cedric's death. Honestly, what kind of girl brings up her ex-boyfriends death scene over coffee, to the guy who was THERE?? I mean, I guess Harry was a little insensitive back to her about it, but REALLY, that's more than anti-social...as far as dates go. Also, Cho may be academically smart, but she seems like a bit of a ditz. It's basically Raw Sexual Magnetism and that's it. They barely even know each other...I don't know I just found Cho kind of useless. I mean, she seems to be just randomly there, and you're like "shoo, shoo, go away!" I was very relieved when Harry 'felt nothing for her' at the end of the fifth book. I hope that her role in the books are finito.
xo
Wilde
Feb 19 2006, 11:11 PM
The relationship, all things considered, seems just purposeless: it didn't add anything to the story or deepen character or expand the realm of thought. All Cho served to do as a two-dimensional character was show in a flimsy sort of way that no, harry is not a eunuch. It didn't go anywhere, and its total lack of movement didn't carry the plot forward at all.
I'm not sure it was so much Cho's character that made it fail awfully, but rather the gaping void where her character should have been. She cries a lot, and titters some, and looks pretty. It must be that said kind of girls are a dime a dozen in the Hogwarts universe, so why would Harry go for her over all the crying, tittering rest of them? Maybe it reveals a strange psychological complex that forces him to irrationally desire the significant others of those who are killed at the hand of his mortal enemies, but quite honestly I doubt it.
Learn From This Mistake
Feb 20 2006, 12:50 PM
LOL, Gavin, that was awesome! What an excellent Anti-Cho rant. I totally agree with you, she seems just as good as the rest of the girls, why not go for somebody who doesn't weep, constantly?
tuni
May 28 2006, 03:42 PM
Well it is really a very very bad pairing,I don't thnik so that Harry really loves Cho,i think it was only attraction and nothing else,She is so mean and flurt girl.I am totally against with this couple.
LilyPotter
May 29 2006, 11:22 PM
I couldn't agree more with all of you. I was totally against Harry/Cho ever since GoF. Terrible pairing. Harry needed an independent, capable, busy mate like himself. That is why I like the whole Harry/Ginny pairing. She is much better suited for Harry.
Plus, Cho is a whiny little basketcase
Dumbledore's Widow
May 30 2006, 07:53 PM
If it's any consolation to those of you who really dislike Cho, I really doubt that JKR will bring Cho back into the romantic equation. I do believe we have seen the last of Cho, as far as a primary character. Just my 2 cents.
potter's girl
May 30 2006, 09:54 PM
Harry and Cho will never happen again!! I think that Cho is a big crybaby!! She should have been more understanding of Harry. Cho made Harry realize that he needed to move on to other girls. Then Harry opened his eyes to Ginny.

For that, I like Cho.
LilyPotter
May 30 2006, 10:14 PM
Ah,
potter's girl, I like your the-glass-is-half-full mindset. Excellent point. And, I just read an interview with JK the other day where she did indeed say that she just didn't want Ginny to be Harry's "
first kiss", and I totally support her choice in bringing Cho in. You're right in pointing out that Cho made Harry realize he liked Ginny. I mean, it's like going from stale McDonald's to Lobster. There is just no comparison.
And, so, because she did in fact make Harry like Ginny, while killing time during which Ginny had the chance to grow up... I, too, give in to the Cho-is-ok idea.... as a side-plot, not as an individual character!
Harry_Potter's_friend
Jun 4 2006, 09:22 PM
I do not think that Harry and Cho should get back together because Cho is kind of a Drama Queen!
imtherealluna*
Jun 7 2006, 05:27 AM
i think that Cho is just a crush. never leave the one you love for the one you like, becaus the one you like, will leave you for the one THEY love. VERY IMPORTANT!!!
Yater
Jun 7 2006, 10:37 PM
QUOTE(stonesorcerer @ Jan 23 2006, 10:12 PM) [snapback]153280[/snapback]
Cho/Harry... I could just say so many bad things about this it's incredible. Where to start? Harry just could not be comfortable around Cho. Even after they were going out he was still nervous and didn't know what to say or anything. Then there's Cho. She's just such a boring, weepy, crybabyish crybaby. She just couldn't get over Cedric, why bother even going out with Harry? Plus, the two of them couldn't really connect very well, it just didn't work out. I was all for Hary/Cho at first but then we actually saw what she was like...and it all went downhill from there.
EXACTLY.
Also, Cho is really stupid because she couldn't just confront Harry with one of the things bothering her. She started bringing up Roger Davies asking her out instead of just flat out asking Harry whether he preferred her or Hermione. She was tactless, and payed for it.
mysterious_witch
Jun 22 2006, 05:48 AM
I no exactly what you mean though ... she's always crying in the books about cedric, it gets kinda annoying after a while though ... its like: why bother with a love thing in a story if it's ot going to carry on until the very end!
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Mistress of Magic
Jul 20 2006, 05:01 PM
I hate to admit it, but I once though this was cute. No more.
It seems Cho wants to weep about a past relationship than to move on and strike up a new one. It is, of course, perfectly healthy to feel sad about the death of a loved one.
However, a girl who can not pull herself together and who is not really supprotive is not the kind of girl Harry needs. Harry can get really depressed as it is.

I find Cho to be quite annoying now, actually.
What Harry needs is a girl with love, wit, talent, brains, and possibly looks. All thr more reason to support Harry and Ginny. They are perfect. To me, Harry and Cho is not.
Narcissa;-
Aug 14 2006, 07:57 AM
Cho is just a waste of time and Saliva for Harry. *Bow*
Now Good Day/Night.
Harry_Ginny777
Aug 15 2006, 03:32 AM
the only thing Cho does is cry and feelijng sad and depressed all the time it is stupid and yes Cho is just a waste of time for harry he needs to be focusing on School, Quidditch, Voldemort, Ginny, friends, death eaters, dementors, draco malfoy, GINNY. and that is it harry needs to figure out all of them
FawkesThePheonix
Aug 15 2006, 03:36 PM
Harry needed somebody who knew how to live, Cho was not that at all. Ms. Whinerbaby always bringing up the bad past! God and talking about Cedric's death and Roger Davies on Harry's date! WHAT'S WITH THAT?
Fawkes
amanda1212
Aug 15 2006, 07:07 PM
I never liked them from the start. It always seemed mis-matched to me. When you see Harry and Ginny together (or picture because we havent actually seen) it just fits. They've known each other for sometime now and i think all the time spent at the Burrow together is what built up the tension between them. I think that even though JKR dosent elaborate on their rellshionship when they were just friends, i think she wants you to think about it. Harry and Cho to me seems just like a young teen crush, nothing more.
ILoveHarryPotter07
Aug 15 2006, 08:42 PM
I agree with many people. I did like them in the beginning..like when he had a crush on her in his 4th year. And maybe when they first kissed. I was like its good that Cho is getting over Cedric. Then I saw her for what she really was. All she wanted was for Harry to feel sorry that she lost Cedric. All she did when he was around was cry and ask about Cedric. I mean it must have been hard for her to loose Cedric but still. I think it was insanely insensitive of her to keep proding Harry on the subject. Harry felt it was his fault and he was there and had to watch Cedric die! I think that it is bad enough without Cedric's depressing, unsensitive, selfcentered ex-girlfriend. I think she only wanted to go out with Harry because he was with Cedric before he died. I really think that she is just plain annoying. She also dumped ALL of her problems on Harry..like he didn't have enough of his own. She is just not right for Harry..
Courtney
hp_book_reader
Aug 19 2006, 09:07 AM
what a horrible couple.

when i was reading the 4th book and harry liked her it was ok. however, after cedric's death cho truned into the human hosehipe, and i have hated her ever since.
p.s. once someone told me i kind of liked like cho and i nearly ripped there head off
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Aug 20 2006, 10:14 AM
Yay venom for H/C! Really Cho is a shallow [MOD EDITED] I mean what kind of girl sobs her heart out about her dead ex and have a new boyfriend who everyone knows is already emotionally corrupt and can't deal with her problems! I mean to say Harry's the one who had to see Cedric die anyway! She only likes Harry because he's famous.
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blurgarian bonbon
Aug 21 2006, 12:55 AM
i used to think cho was good for harry. now i think harry n ginny are way better and shoud get married and have 12 kids =)'
mizz.malfoy
Aug 21 2006, 03:12 AM
[font=Comic Sans Ms] WOW... i HATE cho! for everything she did... harry and her were definatly a bad couple. All she wanted was attention and she got it from Harry. It wasn't HArry's fault though. She was always crying and complaining about something different and she expected that everything was going to turn out ok? Im happy they broke up.
Ginny+Harry<33
Aug 27 2006, 07:19 PM
i totaly agree with you blurgarian bonbon i used to think they would make a cute couple but now they seem horrible for each other i mean y did she freak out like that when they were in hogsmeade i mean seriously he invited her to come along! anyway cho and harry = HORRIBLE ginny and harry = like pb and j =D
Lord_Madlock
Aug 28 2006, 01:48 PM
They're definately over. She cries too much and Harry can't stand it, they can't even look at each other anymore. She just wanted someone to feel sorry for her. Harry didn't want to talk about Cedric and that's all she wanted to talk about. She just wasn't good enough for him, she might have been in the 3rd and 4th book but not know! Bad couple!!!!
-Harry and Ginny for ever!!!!!!11
itbrit
Sep 2 2006, 04:19 AM
this whole thing was a disaster. i cant stand cho chang, and probably couldnt stand to be with anyone like her. she is obviously not over Cedric, and harry doesnt want to hear about poor wittle cedric deing, i mean he saw it happeded, and honestly, shes the biggest mood killer
james pickles
Sep 3 2006, 03:00 PM
Lol. Well Harry really didn't love her for her. He loved her because she was good looking, so as much as we want to blame Cho, it isn't fully her fault. It was partly Harry as well, but that does not mean that I don't think Cho is an over sensitive, spoilt girl.
SarahRebecca
Sep 3 2006, 06:52 PM
Yes I totally agree! Cho is a big crybaby & only went to Harry because she wanted to know if Cedric said anything loving about her before he died

Yeah she really loves him alright
HP_ATrueClassic
Sep 3 2006, 09:44 PM
sorry. i don't agree, i really like Cho and Harry at least better than Harry and Ginny. i know she was a huge cry-baby and all, but my god its not that easy for a girl with MANY emotions to hear that ur boyfriend just died. i know she should stop talking bout him, but if she calmed down on talkin bout Cedric she would make such a great girlfriend for Harry, i still feel bad for her, she just needs to calm down and think a little bit more about how bad Harry has it.
muggleview
Sep 6 2006, 07:00 PM
The Harry/Cho relationship has everything that leads to a failed relationship:
1. Face value: Harry and Cho didn't interact very much during school or out of school. They only saw each other from afar and immediately tried to date. A bit of socializing would be better to begin with, so they know each other more than face value before starting to date.
2. Big gaps: There are big gaps that Harry and Cho have to overcome before they should consider dating: different years, different houses, different background cultures. Ignoring those gaps will only give more pain in the future when they get closer. They should explore these issues in social gatherings, before trying to get deeper.
3. Third-persons: Cho cannot forget Cedric yet. Harry relies a lot on Hermione to solve his issues with the news of Voldermort's comeback. These will cause suspicion and jealousy, although it's actually not a big deal (Cedric's dead, Hermione's not Harry's girlfriend). Until Harry and Cho can independently stand up without third-persons, their relationship is doomed before it starts.
Miss_Matches
Sep 6 2006, 07:18 PM
I don't like the pairing at all...
I personally think she's to weepy and a little self-centered. Like many of you have already stated. Anyway, she's just too much of a baby and is REALLY boring!
nolifequeen
Sep 11 2006, 12:39 AM
i liked it at first. i thought it was cute, but harry was being a total idiot ^^ and then she was being a little.. well you know. ^^ and i dont like it anymore. shes to uptight.. ginny is just the best for harry. and cho is just a.. you know
Hazel-Eyed-Honey
Sep 22 2006, 08:49 PM
Ugh, I can't stand Cho...she doesn't deserve Harry! Harry deserves better - he deserves only the best and that girl, my friends, I must say is Hermione. Now, they would make a cute couple!
UnknownLocket
Sep 23 2006, 04:40 AM
Sure they will make a good couple, but I think that Ron likes her, and Harry knows that...I think... But he would never do that to a friend. I dont think Harry will have a gf, he's too busy fighting Voldemort. He has no time for these complications.
LoonyLuna
Sep 24 2006, 09:02 PM
It was just a silly boyish crush. Nothing more. Even if Cedric didn't take place in the book. Harry and Cho still wouldn't make a good place. For one thing he's a good full year younger than Cho. I'm not saying that its horrible to be dating an older woman...but its just...well not so much of a thing in Harry Potter.
Phoenix92
Sep 28 2006, 06:11 PM
It was just an infactuation..Harry just fell for her looks..He didn't know much about her.I knew this relationship wasn't working when cho suspected Harry in her first date.She mostly cries and doesn't even care what harry thinks when she is crying all over again.Bad pairing.jkr must have made a mistake pairing up those two...*sigh*
Amyrat151
Sep 29 2006, 01:43 PM
I agree with alot people here in saying that I liked them in the 4th book. I felt really bad for Harry when he asked her out and she said she was going with someone else. But I disagree with a lot of people's view on Cho. I think Cedric must of cared about her a lot, otherwise she wouldn't of been at the bottom of the lake. And I think Cho really liked him too, I believe in time they could of even loved eachother. So I think that she was entitled to a few tears, but shouldn't of asked Harry about it, at least on not on their first date. I think she really did like Harry like he liked her, but it was an infactuation on both sides.
I very my agree with muggleview, they hardly knew anything about one another, they should of apporached their relationship in a differnt way.
Malfoy'sMistress
Oct 3 2006, 06:06 PM
I honestly feel sorry for Harry....it was cute in the fourth book....but these feelings are all new to him...and since cho is a sack of tears that bursts randomly, that would shake Harry's view of girls...probably making him more uncomfortable...Dang it Cho!!! lol......no Harry/Cho...ever