Mmm. Okay, well...
I can see this from everyone's perspective, I really can. I know that such things have been debated about on other forums and, indeed, on this one in the past. I loved a good debate myself and posted a lot on various different topics from abortion, to homosexuality, to religion. I very often found that, no matter how careful I tried to be, I got people's backs up because the majority of my opinions on things are probably not exactly mainstream.
The thing is that because all debates on real life issues are based on very deeply held belief systems, it is virtually impossible to talk about issues such as abortion, homosexuality, and religion
without it becoming personal - by their very nature, they
are personal. Everyone's opinions are formed from experience, feelings, morals etc. So there isn't any doubt about it - things do get personal, heated, and inevitably, hackles get raised. If you attack a person's stance on abortion or religion, you're attacking them personally - there's no way around that.
Now here's the other thing - it's not that I don't think that the Duelling Club isn't able to cope with these sorts of issues. We have some of the most intelligent, most philiosophical, most polite, most considerate, most friendly people on this forum that it's ever been my fortune to meet in
any fandom. In fact, we have such a good community here that I think the general consensus is that we would never want to risk damaging that special relationship we have here by debating things that are, essentially, fundamentally un-debatable. We believe what we believe, and whilst debating can help us learn more about other's opinions and feelings, and thus also help us to understand why we feel the way we do, there are some things that have the potential to do more harm than good.
By my own experience in some of those threads, I do have to admit that I have read opinions and arguments from people I had the utmost respect for before, but sometimes, seeing the blood-and-guts, so to speak, does tend to somewhat colour a person's feelings about another. We might not mean for it to happen, and we might resist it the best we can, but when such things are so critical to a person's make-up, it's very hard to maintain distance.
Anyway, all this blurb essentiall boils down to a simple thing. It's not that we aren't capable of behaving ourselves. Far from it. It comes down to the basic respect we all have for each other, the community we've built up, and the friendships we've made. I think that's behind the main feelings of the majority of the staff right now. Not that we
can't do it, but that we
won't - because there are things we value more than the debate; friendships. Valuable things in these troubled times.

So there you go - my Dumbledore-ian moment. For what it's worth