i agree but well how do you get them in here lol
and it is confusing because every guy likes different girls so who know what they want!

haha, I don't know. And your right, guys are confusing, no way will we get a good answer out of them! haha. Ok, if anybody knows any guys on here ask them to please come to this thread and post what they look for...it's worth a try right?

Dude, i know. Guys are so simple that they are confusing. It's terrible. Most guys will say they like personality better than looks, but some will be honest and say just looks. Others will just. . .idk. . .but all the good ones are taken. . .

Oh my God! I know, the only guy I know who actually seems to make sense to me, happens to be in love with my friend. And she won't go out with him! It drives me insane though because I really like him, but he's to busy chasing my friend around to notice! *sigh* Boys are idiots....

boy, Weasly_Girly_83; now that really does suck....true; boy are idiots, when it comes to issues like love. sheesh, now I feel guilty. My friend likes this guy (well, my cousins' friend), but the stupid jerk ignores her & tries to get my attention...which is such a pain in the you-know-where, cause he's always trying to make some wise cracks & impress me, with stunts. Quite freaky, really. I actually kicked him once, in hope of getting him to shut up! Apparently, I gave him quite a big bruise on the shin.

haha nice. Well, don't feel bad, I mean, it's not your fault that guys don't have a clue. But honestly though, I think I would die of shock if they could ever take a hint.

Boys *sigh* Although most girls seem to lack in subtelty too, does no one understand that when you shake your head and say "NO" that they should stop talking. lol. the simplest things bemuse the simplest people.

None of my friends seem to pick up hints, "hello pay attention to the real world people" Shesh.
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Does this SUM it up in one word: JOSH. lol.

But seriously... to avoid shallow-ness and avoid one-liners, here's some 'in-depth'.

Mostly:
-gay guys/bi guys
-guys with dark hair and are pale (lol)
-have a fetish for bleached hair
-emo glasses (lol)
-really flippin skinny guys (hehe)
-guys in eyeliner
-guys in tight or wet clothes (lol) but NOT sweaty just from the rain
-have a tendency to like guys in martial artsbut I never DO find out that they're in them till AFTER I like them.....
-that's it lol although in RL mostly I only like girls (I'm a girl who's bi...) and only like VERY FEW guys in real life.

(Mostly I like guys who are celebs or 2-D but NOT in RL all that often except Josh. lol.).

Well...if we're summing up what we like in one word...Colin. haha. But, as I said before, that's never gonna happen. Stupid boys. *sigh*

Ok avoiding one liners, so what is it I like about him. hmm...

• he's sweet, he actually listens to me when I'm upset about something and tries to help (most guys I know just blow it off and can't accept that I'm acutally upset.)
• I could call him at like 4 in the morning and he'd come over to help with whatever it is I'm calling about
• He's funny, no matter how upset I am he can always make me laugh
• He's hott, I know that sounds shallow and all, but paired with the other stuff I've mentioned it's not that bad, but he's 6 foot, dark hair, hazel eyes that sometimes look green and he has an amazing smile...
• He's smart
• He plays like every instrument on the planet

Ok, that list could go on forever, but I'm gonna stop there.

woah, now this 'colin' dude sounds almost perfect for you! lol, he sounds really sweet & caring. so, wait, is he the one you like, but he likes your friend??? well, if he is, who knows?...maybe he will take the hint?

He sounds pretty amazing,( i don't believe that anyone like that really exsists...but you've proved me wrong!) are you gonna tell us what's happening? or are we gonna have to wait forever ? !
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Ah...but you see that right there is the one flaw. There is nothing happening. I don't know, he's perfect, except that he thinks of me as his best friend. End of conversation. There's nothing gonna happen there. Sorry, I wish I had something more exciting to tell you.

Poor you, maybe if you talked to him...? well i don't know, i haven't got much experience in this area so i don't know.
He sounded good apart from the friend flaw obviously. that has to be one of the worst flaws actually come to think of it...
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I like funny guys I think. And nice funny guys, I hate bullies. And by funny, I mean weird funny usually, and cute I guess. I dont think I mind other stuff. But Id rather friends first I think.

yeah, I like funny guys, but I hate guys who think they're too good for every girl. I mean thats' just plain sexist. ahhh...weasley_girl_83 maybe there are other guys out there for you....who knows, maybe you've been after the wrong guy?

oh my this guys sounds amazing Weasly_Girly_83 but you do still have a chance with him even if he does think of you as his best friend, the trick is just to be there for him but you can date other guys and stuff but always be there for him no matter what, sooner or later he will realize just how perfect you are for him and well i can't tell you the amount of friendships that turn into an amazing relationship!
i think the foundation for a good relationship is to be friends with the person first!

so well i also have a guy to sum up what kind of guys i fall for

Thanks guys! Your so sweet. But I really don't see much happening. He has a girlfriend, and thinks of me in only a friends way. *Sigh* So, Fany, lets here about this guy who sums up what you like! Yes, I'm changing the subject...

don't give up hope yet
ok so i call him sandy because his name is so weird lol

• very persistant seeing as i wasn't the nicest person to him at first
• thinks i'm very special and says it to me often
• he's really smart there is always something to talk about with him
• supports me even if he doesn't really like what i'm doing
• he plays the piano beautifully *sigh*
• he's cute in his own way i mean he's a bit taller than me, dark hair, dark eyes they have a sort of mysteriousness to them, he has the best smile in the world! it could light up any room! oh and the best part he has a deep sexy voice lol
• he thinks my weirdness is cool

so yeah the list can go on and on but i'll leave it at that!

hmm..sounds like this Sandy guy likes you Fany! hm...apparently we have the same taste in good looking...cus he sounds pretty fine to me! lol.

well i really do hope so tho i don't know! i won't see him for another long while! it's good to know we have about the same taste in guys lol
ohh i forgot to wirte one last thing i know you'll like this Weasly_Girly_83 he sings really nice! he sings and plays the piano awww

awww...it's offical...he's perfect for you fany. lol. For those of you who don't know. Any guy with musical talent gets like a billion points in my book! lol.

aww i love guys who can sing! that makes me wanna melt

hmmm well i actually have not told ANYONE about the guy i like (coz im too scared he'll find out), but i will tell you all because you have all opened your hearts and told everyone here. He's one of my friends in my group at school and his name is Matt.

• When I first met him, i thought he was verrrry cute (*Ok, Im not shallow - it just helps sometimes!*)...but not cute as in most girls like..kind of, quirky cute
• People think he acts stupid, but when you get to know him, he is an adorable sweetheart (like those guys you just wanna cuddle)
• He cares about people and does anything to make anyone feel better when they are feeling down
• He is very deep and has good morals and standards
• He isn't a jerk - BIG MUST!
• He has a great sense of humour and is talkative (so never any awkward silences lol)
• He is a massive soccer fan, just like me!
• ...anndddd i should stop before i get too descriptive

Only problem is, as well as we get along (we can talk for ages) im too scared to give any hints off! Ive liked guys before and all they have done is hurt me and trodden on my heart a thousand times over so i guess i have lost A LOT of confidence. Im even too scared to tell my friends at school!

woah, stef; I know you've told me about him before but you never told me all that. awww...he sounds sweet & caring, especially the 'weirdness is cool' thing, cause hey, it is. ahhhh, and omg...he plays the piano & sings! sheesh, then he must be pretty special, cause you hardly seem to know guys who sing, these days (or maybe its; just me blink:)

and omg, lp_supastar, this matt guy, sounds quite adorable & funny. And he sounds decent & outgoing. haha, you know you should really just try to give give a few hints, cause who knows?...maybe he feels the same way.

hmm...that's a good point lp_superstar...I think it's easier to talk about the guys we like here, cus I know that there's no way that you guys can tell anybody who can tell him. I know this sounds mean...but I don't trust any of my girl friends at school with this, because I know if they get mad at me about something that everybody in school will know. But on here, you guys don't know who he is, so there's no way you could possibly tell him! lol

As for guys not singing. That's not exactly true...just not many guys do it anymore. All afraid of being made fun of by the other guys in school...*sigh* to bad though, cus any guy with any sense would know that most girls like guys who can sing...

No, you're not mean for saying that Weasly_Girly_83 coz you have a really good point! The same thing happens to me...i tell one friend "in confidence" who'll tell another "in confidence" until everybody knows!

Yeah telling a friend in confidence just doesn't work!!
All of you, these guys sound perfect. You've all found raly great guys, even if they're all friends. Drop them hints, and if they don't return them just stay friends. that's what id' do. (although im probably pretty useless)
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don't be scared! just start making a few compliements! i mean if you live all your life scared your going to have so many regrets! and well it isn't good to live that way! trust me you have to be brave! i mean don't like tell him exactly but flirt a bit


lol that's because i've told you other things about him jay! yeah he once said my weirdness was rather cute i just love it that he likes me (even if it is only as friends cuz i'm not sure if it's more than that)

hmm...well, I know I'm going to sound like a bit of a hypocrite here...but drop some hints, fany, see if he likes you as more than that. It sounds like he does, so maybe he's just afraid you don't like him.

lol i wish i could but things are way complicated! see i won't get to see him for a really long time! i he left some months back and well i thot he had forgotten about me but then he wrote to me and well he hasn't! so in the letters i write to him i do hint i like him lol
it's not being a hypocrite at all

Oh, yea, I see how that gets more complicated. Long distance relationships are tough. I don't have much experiance with them, but they are.

Hm...I've thought of something else that seems to get me every time. I seem to fall for guys who are younger than me. Not like, alot younger than me. But like, a year/grade behind me. Like, my last two boyfriends were a grade behind me. I have the early birthday, so I'm one of the youngest in my grade, and they both had late ones, so I was only like 3-4 months older, but there's still the whole grade thing. Is that weird?

yeah long distance relationships don't work so that's why i say i only like him and i'm not ina relationship! i write to him as friends
lol my last boyfriend was 5 months younger than me! talk about weird! but well if it doesn't matter to you then i guess it shouldn't be weird!

i've realized going over all the guys i've liked a lot they all have something in common, they're all like my first crush lol not exactly like him but they all have something he did, i was a real shame i moved *sigh*

My last boyfriend was 2 years older than me!!! haha. I still talk to him actially! But we never met up whilst we were going out. We met up before he asked me out, but never during. weird eh?
Ohh i remember my first crush he's still really cute anyway!!! but he's supposedly a jerk so no way will i go for him!!!
Dropping hints in a long distance relationship can't be the easiest thing, just keep trying!
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I've never fallen for anyone, if that's the right word. I think that some sort of looks attract me at first. Most importantly he has to be funny and have a good attitude toward everything and have a great personality. You definetly can't be dull. You have to be a little crazy.

( actually i have fallen for someone but i will never see them again. )

Most people these days are a little crazy ! ( myself included! )
No i've never "fallen" for someone, *sob* I've had crushes before, but never REALLY fallen. Do you know what i mean?
One question, why do we say someone that you FELL for? It sounds like it's bad. Surely it should be someone that we FLEW for, or something like that!??!?!
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well sophie it's quite simple you say fallen because when you like someone so much it makes your mind kind of go blank like when you fall and hit your head, also when you say i fell for someone it maybe like falling because said person broke your heart or something!

don't worry one day you will literally fall for someone but in a good way!
crushes are really good i mean look at me! i still remember my first crush lol

I like crushes, they're a very good way to spend your time, sitting and dreaming of them!!!
Still falling makes it sound bad. But if you fell in love surely you'd want to fly in love ( ok maybe that sounds weird..) never mind, you're right!!!
I just thought it was a kinda random phrase!
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lol when you fall in love you'll understand why it's falling and no flying!
oh darn i can't post a on liner so emm ok i'll tell yyou guys about my first crush, he's name is kale (love the name and if i ever have kids i'm naming one that)
he was my height with amazing eyes something like hazel and grey i don't know, he was super funny! oh man we'd laugh a lot. he called me alvacado because he couldn't say my last name awww thinking about him brings a smile to my face

what happened to him then?
he sounds really cute *sigh* well my first crush was actually when i was 6/7 years old ! (haha), i found pictures i'd drawn of us holding hands and stuff ( how cute was i?) then i started liking him again when i was 9/10 years old! I was little and in love! haha.
Maybe i'll fall, maybe i'll fly. you never know. lol
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i don't know what happened to him i wish i did! he was the cutest thing in the world! lol that was when i was in 7th grade
awww i don't have drawings of any boy i liked, tho i do have a notebook with my first "boyfriend's" name all over it! lol

I wonder if guys read this for advice. All of a sudden millions of guy all over the world are signing up for piano lessons! haha

Its funny you said that [literally fall for someone..]
We were at my friends house on her front porch, and my friend likes this guy and we were talking about how it'd be funny if he walked by right now, and she got up and the guy she liked was coming by the sidewalk on his scooter thing, and my friend had tripped at the same time she saw him,and she was surprised, so she screamed and fell on the ground. I screamed too, but only cause I was surprised because she screams preety loud. So anyways, he looked at us funny and kept going. But we laughed alot.

Ladycakeage: That is so something I could see myself doing. See the guy I like coming towards me and fall on my face! haha! Of course, I am just about the worlds biggest klutz so...that wouldn't be anything unusual falling on my face...

haha...although I have never tripped over a guy, i have often stumbled on randomn twigs on the ground...which just proves how "observing" I am.



ahhh...well, I honeslty can't remember my first crush...although I can remember quite a few others...



haha, lol. that'd be pretty funny.

well eee i'm a guy. yeah i'm a guy!! hahaha LOL ok whatever emmm i have fallen literally too, and hid behind a portable pool but that's not the case emm what i usually fall for chicks who aren't uptight, stuck up girls are not for me, girls who loves comics and music (well that's a bonus of course), who isn't ashamed of who she is and who is herself, who can tell me my poo to my face and isn't with any bull. I don't like girls who are fake, and the only phsycal thing (well if you consider this phsycal) are her eyes, you can know a person by her eyes.




and on top of it all.... i play the piano but since a while ago not because my sister said it

haha! I so see all the Harry Potter crazy guys who come on this site suddenly taking piano and voice lessons! I'd be in heaven! lol!

cruciatus_andy: Finally! some guy imput!! haha! yea, that's all I really have to say there...oh and you play piano! lots of bonus points! hehe

~Kristina~

hehe i like this topic. Well i think ill start off with what i like in a guy. The biggest and i mean biggest thing is that he has to be able to make me laugh. Laughter is a HUGE part of my life, and if a guy cant make me laugh i honestly wont waste my time. He has to be as odd and weird as me and as outgoing as meand as random as me!. I tend to live my life on the fast lane and if he cant keep up, sorry pal. Im very out there and im constantly doing random and "crazy" things (at least according to my freinds ), and if he cant handle that then its bye bye. And he has to be able to get along with all my friends ( Guys come and go but good friends are forever.)

This may sound weird but i tend not to like the lovey mushy guys i cant help it, I rather be out getting in some sort of trouble than cuddling( is that weird?) . I think one thing is that he has to be able to be silly with me and goof around with me ( i do this often).The guy would also have to be okay with being in the most random places at the most random times ( i find myself lf in that type of situation a lot).

Looks dont play a huge role (But well. I Love Love Love hazel eyes. I don't really know why,I just do!). I mean yes it would be nice if he was good looking but i have learned that its not the most important thing( ever have a huge crush on a stranger you think is just gorgeous and you think about this person constantly wishing you could get to know him and when you finally do get to talking you find out hes a complete a-hole?... just me?).Im not asking for a price charming to come and sweep me off my feet ( i like to walk) all im asking for is a nice, funny person ,a good freind and a partner in crime . Am i expecting to much from the male gender?.

Well i might as well tell you what i hate in guys. I hate smart asses and guys who are full of them selves and think that they are too good for my friends . I don't know if once again this is just me but have you seen those guys that think that being rude and being a **** is the way to get girls. I mean i dont know why some guys seem to have implanted in their heads that being ignored just makes us ( girls) want them more! Well take it from me it doesn't! Oh and whats worse is guys who think that they are the center of the freaking universe! Oh and yeah if the guy wears more make-up than me buh by. hmm yeah i think thats it.

Holy **** !! i just realized how much i wrote,and the weird thing is i can probably keep going forever.Hmm. I better not.

Abilove: haha, no please, continue! I find it fun to read what other people like/dislike about guys and see how it compares to my own taste! lol. I agree, smart *** get pretty annoying...but they can be fun to...just not to date. Like, my cousin is a complete and total one, but I love hanging out with him because he's funny. But I would never date somebody like that...

thanks! but it's the truth, i mean why would you want a really pretty girl if she's well a bit thick (sorry to put it that way but i didn't know how else to say it), no interesting conversations, it wouldn't be fun.

No, it may be blunt, but it's true...I don't think I could ever date a guy who can't hold a conversation. And not just about stupid things like sports! Although...I'm a big baseball fan and could talk for hours about my team (Chicago White Sox). Ohh that's another thing...can not be a cubs fan! lol! Sorry, I know that was random, but I'm kinda random as well so...there you go. Anyways, focusing now. He has to be somebody I can talk to about important things, as well as able to make me laugh.

Lol.Weasly_Girly_83. yeah ( hehe) watching asses make well asses of themselves is fun. Ive dated a smartass. the best part was after i broke up with him me and my freinds had some really great laughs at some of the stupid things he said. even tho it was pretty funny i will never date a smartass ever again!

ahh i just red what you wrote "I don't think I could ever date a guy who can't hold a conversation." ahhh! thats sooo true! i cant believe i forgot to say that!!. thats such an important thing i mean if you cant talk to someone then there really isnt much point to it right? ah! lol im a bit of a cubs fan.

haha, well, I just can't ever talk to you again then. lol. Just kidding. It's not so much talking to cubs fans as dating them. I'd get in to many fights during baseball season. And would probably have to keep like a twenty mile radius of the guy during the cross-town games. I'm like an obsessive sox fans, I know all the players and stats since like the 2001 season.

hmm...ok what else? I know, I love it when a guy can be romantic...you know that movie the Notebook? Well, if I had my way every guy in America would use it as his bible to dating. That has got to be the most romantic movie on the planet. The book is amazing as well. All guys should read/watch it and use it as a guide! And yes, I know it probably sounds pathetic...but I would love nothing more than a kiss in the rain! *sigh*