No tyou're not a pervert. A pervert is someone who's like 40 who trails after young girls...

He sounds adorable can i mett him? no i'm kidding...
Wow he actually sounds realyl amazing! I can understand why you feel this way!
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Jsgirl nope, you're no pervert... you just really like this guy and i agree with amortentia_lover if you're not a 40 year old dude tracing around girls that are 25 years younger than you're not a perve

this is when we're told that in fact you are a 40year old guy chasing after young girls... i hope not...

He sounds so cute, Jsgirl go for it!
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I'm sorry to tell you that this is what Andy really looks like.

Andy's Mugshot

He really is a 40 year old perv! I'm just kidding Andy, this was all in fun

Speaking of old guys stalking around young girls, I was driving by a highschool the other day, and they were having track practice. There was this guy leaning against the fence staring at all of the girls with his hand in his pocket. Not sure what he was doing, but I'm pretty sure I don't want to know.

- Phoenix

Umm perv - i think we should get him a blackberry- vibrations zzz lol
we do cross country running (but its really running round our schol whilst old guys run past in cars ) we get honked so much... ugh it's not pleasant. old perverts
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Perverts! Hate them. I live near a beach, not a big one, so there aren’t many people. In the summer I was there with some friends. This old man came driving on his scooter and stopped it close to us. He sat with his back at us and looked in the mirror on the side on it also with his hand in his pocket. It was really disgusting, and we walked away immediately.
Someone of my other friends have even seen one day where he didn’t wore any pants while he looked at younger girls.

Wow, no pants? Are you sure? Do you mean shorts, or no pants whatsoever? I know that here in the states, public nudity is a definite no-no, but there are county's that allow it *cough canada* I don't think I would like to live in one of those countrys...

- Phoenix

Ewww thats gross.

By the way I have tried going after him but he told me he doesn't like me. It's to bad cause he's like absolutely perfect. His sisters say that he's never annoying. Man, I wish my brother was like that. And he's absolutely hilarious. One time I came outside after lunch and he(my crush ) and another boy were outside. And apparently Jeremiah(my crush) told him a funny joke or did something stupid or funny cause the other boy was almost on the ground rolling from laughter. It was so funny i'm all "Jeremiah what did you do to him. He's almost dying from laughter". But he didn't say anything cause he was laughing at the joke that he made or something. It was funny.
I wish he liked me so bad he's so perfect. And I have never seen him being rude to anybody. He's like an angel from heaven or something. I don't know where he came from cause he's so perfect. It's almost like a dream. Like i'm dreaming of this cute perfect guy. But i'm not. He's so nice, funny and perfect. Truly i'v never met any boy that wonderful. But he doesn't like me
I wish he knew how I felt about him. I would get on my knees and plead for him to give me a chance. I would give up anything.*sigh* But life's never fair.

I love him so much. I told him that. But I guess he doesn't know how much. I wish boys would understand things like these.
And how it really hurts when they say no.

Sorry about going on and on. Love is my weak spot. As you can probably see. Sorry I just get myself all worked up about him.
Any advice?

well Breanna what can i say... i've been there and i've done that!
ok one thing i've learned about guys (not all but some) is that they tend to not like girls that like them, they go after girls they can't have! i don't know why but it happens!
you really can't do much about him not liking you because well you can't forse him but if you told him you like him and stuff i say move on! another little thing i learned is that guys don't like to see a girl that like them liking someone else!
lol so well that's the adive i can give you, move on! one day you'll find a person who is totally right for you and loves you like mad!

well i hadn't been on here for a while! i'm back! lol nice mugshot of andy jaime! where did you get it? lol

We have this site in California called Megan's Law. It is required for every sex offender in California to be on this site. It has a map, and you can tell how many registered sex offenders live around you, what they did, their names, addresses, etc. It's incredibly useful, and I think they should extend it to the rest of the country. I just grab one of the pictures from there. I guess this guy lives in the next town...

- Phoenix

haha; that'll keep most of your stalkers at bay...why can't we have a site like that down here....awww...Jsgirl...I know this sucks to hear...but I can't help but feel sorry for you...o well, heaps of other guys out there...
ahhh...pervets...oh how I luv to rant on about them...god, they're disgusting...I swear...well, I go to an all girls school & now we have some building construction thing going on & all the male builders hardly do anything but stare at all the girls...blech & can you believe some girls actually change for p.e in the middle of the grounds, instead of the change room...

Ughh! you guys are impossible to keep up with! *sob* Andy is a forty year old pervert? what? sooo confused...


haha, yea, I started to tell my mom about it, then had to stop myslef when I started talking about specific people. She knows I'm on here, but she would be extremely, what was your word sophie? cheesed? she'd be extremely cheesed if she knew that I was on a first name basis with so many people. I ended up changing everybodies names to people she's met from my school. lol.


You didn't run screaming? really, wow, your braver than I would have thought...lol.


Well, you weren't but your welcome to join, always looking for new recruits. Basically, we talk openly about his girls, are out to get his girls, and are going to videotape his butt!


that's really creepy..can you say pervert?


Sophie! lol, you perv...*shakes head* haha. and that right there is why I don't do track or cross country...well, that and the fact that I'm just about the slowest person on the planet...


eww old perverted men! I have to ask though...how did we get onto the subject of old perverted men? I think I missed that...

Awww...Jsgirl, I'm sorry, that totally sucks...sorry I can't be any politer about that, but it does. I know the feeling, and I wish I could tell you how to get over it...but seeing as I'm sorta in the same position right now I'm at a loss. Guys are morons...simply put. (No offense here to any guys on this thread, not all guys are morons, just the ones we know...)


I have something like that for my area too, but I can't think of what it's called right now...I went on and found out that I have like 5 living within like three miles of my house, it's really creepy.

Yes I am braver than anyone thought.

Phonix core you live in california? I wish I did!

We have a website that shows all the sex-preditors here in Michigan too.

I don't know if we have a website like that but just yesterday we got in the mail that there was a sex offender living just down the street from us about two blocks away. he committed two felonys for having sex with girls under the age of 14 (whew, im 16, but still...*shivers*).

wow i wish something like that exsisted here in mexico! but it doesn't! oh so free your safe lol your 16 i think its so gross that guys like that exsist! eww! pervs scare me! and trust me when i say there are plenty here in mexico!

I agree, I mean, seriously, who is pathetic enough that they a.) can't get somebody their own age so must resort to sleeping with/raping young girls or b.) just gets kicks out of it? Honestly, there is perverted, and then there's just this whole other level, this would be on that level.

Yeah, that's really pathetic and I don't know why they still aren't locked up somewhere. How is it that people become like that, it's gross. Surely there's someone out there willing to give them what they want.



haha yeah, as safe as I can be.

Yea, and even if there isn't anybody around who truly likes them, I mean there are...erm...don't know how to put it tactly...well, people who you know, do that for a living...Sorry, that's the best way I could think of to word it. But I mean, if they were really that desperate, they could find people who are willing to help them out...other than innocent kids...

oh...so now we're discussing the reasons why a pervert is a...pervert & does the things that he does?...well, I rekon they just do it; because they are mentally retarded (I know I am mean....but I do have my reasons)...I mean come on...there are more interesting things to do in life than just checking out & stalking all the neighbourhood girls...

ChOco, yea, basically. lol. I'm going to try and direct the topic back towards the theme of this thread however, and ask for a bit of advice from some of the guys here...

Okay, so I have this really good guy friend who I like. He's really sweet and is always there for me with everything. He's stayed up on the phone with me until three in the morning when I was really upset. And he can always make me laugh, no matter how sad I am, he can make me laugh. Here's where I need you guys...I can't tell if he likes me or not, we flirt all the time and it seems like he might, but he flirts with all the girls in our 'group' so I don't it's kind of hard to tell. And he keeps asking me who one of my friends likes. Any of the guys here able to explain his strange behavior?

well...i'm not a guy...but I am still gonna post whatever useless theory I have about this 'situation' of yours...wow, he actually stayed until 3 in the morning for you...wow now that is impressive...oops, going off track there...aniwho; the fact that he keeps asking you about who your friend likes...suggests that a) he is crushing on your friend he is just curious as to know which guy she likes, in case he has any doubts about who she likes c) he is just trying to make some randomn conversation with you...
I can't think of anything else at the moment.

Weasly_Girly_83 ok it's simple what your friend is trying to do let's put it like this A likes B but A doesn't know if B likes him so A asks random questions about C and D (thos are your friends ) to see how B reacts, if A sees that B reacts a bit jealous towards the comments, A will have his answer...
in simpler words this guy is trying to attract your attention therefore he asks questions about your friends to see if you get jealous, he must be my type hahaha i do that all the time, it's a bit comical to see a girl over react because she likes you but doesn't say anything and is hesitating to say it when those type of questions pop out.

Andy's right. He is trying to get a reaction out of you to see how you feel. If you really like him, ask him if he likes you. Tell him how much you appreciate that he has been there for you (he stayed on the phone until 3 am, he was definitely there for you).

Oh, another theory for him asking about your friend, is that he might have a friend who likes her...Is there any possibility of that?

- Phoenix

yeah maybe it's what jaimie says... one of his friends likes your friend, there you have it 2 good theories on what could be happening to your guy friend and follow what jaimie said, just tell the dude you like him and that you appreciate that he's been there for you, you'll probably get a good reaction.

well i have think that andy and jaime are right. guys like to make girls jealous! so yeah kristina there are only 3 options for your case
a) he likes you and wants to see if you like him
b)he likes your friend and is really trying to see who she likes
c) he has a friend who is bonkers for yours.

guy at times can be confusing
ok if a guy pays for my meal and doesn't pay for anyone elses does that mean he likes me?

Thanks guys! Now, the question is...which option is it...lol. *sigh*

Stef, I'm not exactly an expert on this matter, but I'd say it means he likes you...otherwise he wouldn't have offered to pay for just you...

well kristina you're just going to have to go with your gut feeling!

yay! lol he didn't even offer he actually argued with me! lol awww i hope you're right kristina!

he argued to pay for it? i guess that's a good sign... umm sorry but lack of experience as you know, so i will be no help!!!
Kristina, can you fill me in? who's this bloke? i've missed tons...
*sigh* you're offline for one night and this happens!
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i guess it is a good sign! well at least i hope so! which bloke? the one kristina like or the one i like?

You really didn't miss much Sophie, the guy I'm talking about is the same one I was telling you guys about before in here, but since we got some guys here now I thought I'd ask their opinions on the matter.

Stef, I'd think that if he want's to pay for you it's a good thing. I'm probably not what you'd consider and expert, but....that seems like it means he likes you.

oh sure do hope you're right kristina! i wouldn't want to ge my hopes up for nothing! i've been hurt more times than i care to admit!

well kristina how are things going with your guy?

Aww Stef, I hope I'm right too. *sigh* I know the feeling...erm, I was gonna talk to him at school today, but then he wasn't there, and my friend, the one he kept asking me about came up to me all excited, apparently he called her and asked her out last night...so yea. There isn't gonna be anything there. Anyways, enough about me...good luck with your guy Stef!

awww i'm so sorry kristina! i'm sure you'll find an even better guy! you deserve it!

well yeah i hope things go well with said guy! it's actually really annoying that i think about him all the time! i'm not like that! i'm not the type of girl that thinks about a guy all the time! but hey well i guess it has to happen to all of us one time or another!

cheer up kristina! there are other fish in the sea!

Thanks Stef. Okay, enough about me...tell us more about this guy you can't stop thinking about Stef! I need details! (as my guy really doesn't like me and my little love story just hit a complete stop I plan on living through yours for the time being. hehe.)

hahaha ok i'll tell you the tale of two people one of which really likes the other and doesn't know it the other person likes her ok lets call them stef and sandy lol

so when stef first met sandy she didn't like him much. she thought he was a bit stuck up. sandy on the other hand was always very nice to stef. so one day stef fell down and couldn't play the piano for choir rehersal so stef started thinking emm who plays the piano? so she thought of sandy. she called sandy up and asked him to play he very sweetly said yes.
during rehersal stef realized that sandy wasn't as stuck up as she once thought he was. he was actually very funny and sweet. so stuff said huh he's nice... but stef realized what she had said so she smacked herself in the face and said no you dork! remember what happened last time you fell for someone. so stef made it her point in life to push sandy away... far far away. since she saw she couldn't sing and play the piano at the same time she asked sandy, rather cooly by the way, if he could play the piano for her.
that was her big mistake. every rehersal was full of laughter. she tried hard to remember her plan of pushing him away but sandy wasn't going any where. everytime she was rude to him he shrugged and stayed there.
he said stuff to her that made her blush. stuff like "your so weird, i love that about you". he believed in her waky dream of becoming a writer. he told her she had all the potential to be whatever she wanted. he would compliement her hair all the time, call her randomly on the phone...
she one day decided she just couldn't push him away... her feelings from him grew rather quickly...
he made her feel special and like if she was the best girl in the world. when he saw her talking to a guy he would causally go talk to her and ask her later who the guy was.
he loved her cooking. he actually paid her to make him cookies, but stef said she'd make them for free, he put the money in her bag...
one day sandy had to leave... he couldn't control the fact he had to leave but said he'd come back... he said bye to stef and stef was very sad and was horrible with goodbyes so she said bye stiffly.
she cried because he left. she kept telling herself that he was going to come back... but another voice kept saying that she was never going to see him again. she decided she was going to write to him...
she wrote him a letter as friends a few monthhs later...
stef thought she wasn't going to get a reply but she did. he said in his letter that he remembered her everywhere he went and that it'd be impossible to forget her cookies...
so this tale has no end yet... stef is waiting for another letter that is suppose to come soon if it even comes. she not a very optimistic girl because she doesn't think she's good enough for such a great guy...

ok so that's the story...

Aw Stef, I'm sorry. How far away did he move? I say don't give up hope just yet. Long distance relationships can be tough, but you can make it work. It sounds like he really likes you, once again, I'm no expert on this but it does seem like it to me. Hopefully your story ends happily ever after!

oops i sort of forgot i'm on andy's account lol

hahaha i'm such a dork! well ok so thanks kristina for your input! well i try not to think about it too mcuh because well that is my big problem i think too much! well yeah i'd love to see what guys think! seeing as sandy is a guy guys should know how things are!

hmph...I think the guys have abandoned us Stef, sick of our problems with...well, guys. lol.

We haven't abandoned you, we are just taking a break Sometimes we need our space...Dorks. Yes, the problems are mucho.

- Phoenix

Aw, how could you need space from us Jamie? lol. You know, I think I should be offened that you called me a dork...except for the fact that I kinda am one, so that's nothing new...

Okeyday, I wanna figure out a guys problem now...sick of talking about how depressing my love life is...so, who wants to talk abut theirs? lol.

geeze jaime instead of helping me out you mock me? ouch that hurts! i don't want to be part of your stalker club anymore! *tear* just kidding that would make you happy!

yeah lets hear some one elses tragic or happy story!

Stef, you can't back out on us like that, just because he's being mean you'd abandone the rest of us? *sob* just kidding.

Lets hear a happy story, I get enough sad ones out of my own life thanks. lol

for me i am attracted to the funny, charming, sneeky, good looking, bad-assed boys, i just always get attracted to bad boys, i always get wrong off my friends for it but bad boys are exciting.

Aw Kelseaaa, I know I'm gonna sound like your friends, but trust me, I've been there, done that, it really isn't the best idea. I know the feeling, I've dated quite a few of the 'bad boy' types, always thinking that I could make them change, but in reality, it just doesn't work like that, and has gotten me into alot more trouble/pain, that I would have wanted otherwise. I'm not saying not to give somebody a chance, just to be very carefull about it.

naa kristina i wouldn't abandon you all! plus that would make jaime happy! lol

well kelseaaa i agree with kristina, i've been there i've done that, i had a bad case of broken heart. bad guys are fun for a while. of course they're attractive duh their the bad boys they have that mysteriousness about them but then you realize that bad isn't good when it comes to guys! trust me it hurts a lot to realize it

ok guys you're gonna have to fill me in! ! !
Ok even I ( Miss Lack of Experience Herself ) has had bad boy experience. Sad to say - because most are hott - that they are generally vile gits. Go for the good guys
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i agree with you on that! bad guys are hott but good guys are even hotter! oh man i love a guy that can cook! aww it's the sweetest thing when they cook for you!

sophie we're asking people to share their love experiances i already did and kristina did too so we're looking for happy loves stories!

I second that (uh, make that I third that, just saw that Stef already agreed with you...) But bad boys are fun at first, but they are well, there's a reason that they are bad boys, not good boys.

wow, so many pages since I last posted. so we're talking about bad boys & love experiences now, are we? ok...

o yes, a guy who can cook is a major priority! I know i'm shallow, but hey, come on...

haha, yup; that is true. Love does not exist in the world of bad guys - they think they're too good...& that falling for a girl spoils their 'image'...(yup, i've been there... ) o well, bad boys will always be bad boys...