I'll try not to pervert them *mouth twitches*
Okay on teh nice warmth note, i would want my guy to be warm..that makes no sense...but i wouldn't want to hold hands with one of those people who hyave cold hands all the time. Know what i mean?
Probably not...
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no I get you (shocked gasp)...ok, to avoid confusion, basically we want a guy who has a warm feeling to them...(aka, generates body heat & makes you feel all warm & fuzzy inside; like how feel when you just finished a nice hot mug of steaming tea)...

but not too hot as we don't want our throat scolded by the hot tea !
oh we also want a differnt type of hot to be rolled in, well this would be a bonus, if he looks hott to... jeez we are gonna burn ourselves
so generates body heat
makes us fell warm and fuzzy like tea ta the right temperature
and looks hott

anymore types of hottness you can think of??
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Are you two comparing guys to cups of tea? lol. Strange people . I've decided that i want a boy with great hair. I met my friends boyfriend today and he has the most amazing hair! Honestly, if she hadn't been stood next to me i would have just launched myself on him lol. He has a really nice voice aswell.

amen to that jay, but in this case it's a girl, a girl who doesn't care what everyone else says, obivously if they insult her i go whoop some butt hahaha



anything else soph? hahahaha i'm kidding, it's not cheesy at all, it supposed to be that way (at least in my book) a girl needs to feel protected and need support when they're down. i agree 100%...

Haha, so you're going to base your love off of hair, huh? lol, well, good luck on that. I feel sorry for your boy if he decides to cut it I do understand how certain features can just instantly attract you to someone though. I really like blond hair but then again, I ended up w/ a redhead, and I couldn't be happier

I think feeling safe with a boy is important, but it shouldn't lead you to settle for someone simply because he's "safe." Sometimes, love's a bit frightening, and people tend to run away from that because they're scared. However, I agree that the person themself should give you s sense of security and...rightness, I guess. Like a sense that the world is good simply because that person is in it, and they love you.

Mandi, Jamie was right, you are one of the cleverest people i've met...or typed...
You put exactly what i think almost every girl feels down into words... ! *wipes tear* much better explanation than mine and Jay's 'tea theory' as it shall now be deined...

i'm agreed with *dances round*
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awwwww....how sweet
[Mod Edit]....j/k

hey...even you know how bad my inspiration was last night..*cough*...and I was drinking some nice tea when I posted that...hence my tea theory...stop mocking it!
but I do agree, mandi; you did a way better job of explaining...

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Mod Edit: I know it was a joke, but it's still not allowed, because we have young members here, and using such, er, adjectives isn't appropriate.

emo... hahaha kidding jay..

and i'm no gonna start with your tea explanation haha

jay, i do whoop butt if they insulkt anyone i care about...

okay so we have andy whooping butt, not sure if that should go on the list or not. lol. well i wont cross it off, we just don't want our boyfriends going to juvenile detention...
i'm still searching for the awesome, super sweet, mature, sensible, kind, loving, and one million other things, guy..*sigh*
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Me too, can we all talk please. I dont even want to know about the list.

sophie...detention can sometimes be interesting....

*sigh*...and yea, I'll need a guy who's mature (don't pervert it soph), because i'm a bit too....(what can i say)...childish & playful...so yea, I need someone to shove me in line...

see im the other way round, im the mature one, i nheed someone who can get me to do stuff more on the wild side well you know what i mean...
last year i ahd this crush on an 18 yr old, ( friends on holiday ) and he adn his friends tried to sneak me into a bar *snigger* althoguh it's comeplety pathetic to have a crsh on someone that much older but we had tons of fun, adn i wasn't stuck sightseeing
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Sounds fun, I can be mature but according to some people i have a lot of growing up to do, he got off didnt he. I liked an older guy but he ended up getting a girlfriend, so that really didnt work. Kaili

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althoguh it's comeplety pathetic to have a crsh on someone that much older but we had tons of fun, adn i wasn't stuck sightseeing
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No way sophie...id go for an older guy most of the time...for some reason im more attracted to them...i dont think its pathetic at all!!

obviously not if they're like 60 but you know what i mean!!

Wow, Soph an 18 year old...a small miniscule 5 years! That's a little too far apart for my liking...My drop off is about 2 years apart.

soph you don't act your age... and detention is fun hahaha but no i'm not the type that get into fight for no reason, i try to avoid them but if the situation presents, i would defend her i can't stand how guys have no respect for girls...

Having stef for a sister does pay off, eh?
ok, another issue that I would like to adress on my list...Number (where am I upto now?)...I think it was 151...
ok, adding to the whole 'fight' aspect...I can't stand guys who get aggresively worked over at the slightest of flirtations...
i.e...say a bus driver says "I'll let you of this time...but only because you got a pretty face"...and then the guy goes "oi! stop eyeing my girl"...and then suddenly it turns into a major argument...
that annoys me... I don't like people who are over-dominant or obsessive...

okay so my 18 year old guy crush was kinda weird.. and it also recieved tons of posts from you guys! just to inform you all, the crush lasted like 3 days, as soon as i left i forgot about him! haha
and no i don't act my age, i act like an old grandma... *snort*
Jay you're right, that's stupid, it's nice when a guy can stand up for you, but not overboard...
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hahaha good example! HAHAHA! Yes that does bug me, I cant stand it when guys are like YOU TALKING TO MY GIRL! or it can be the other way hense, the Fight we just had. Again I am sorry. I can too but uptight and be like " uh guys that is really nauhgty lets not do that. " But then i can also cuss someone out and then be like why are you mad?? And then I can also be like "your mom goes to college!" hahaha that is me being very odd.

no jay it's more like having been raised by stef hahaha... well it's the truth...

and you know what i would've done if a bus driver ever said that to the girl i'm with? i would laugh hahahaha because i don't find it offensive but i find it funny

what i don't find funny is whistling and saying vulgar things to girls... that i can't stand and there i do tend to yell at the guy

I think that i am just like you. Although I may be a complete goofball sometimes i think that everyone has those "moments" where they are just goofing off which is fun. But usually I am mature and that is why it is hard for me to find a guy my age because usualy they haven't matured yet .


I think that we all get crushes on vacations last time i went to mexico I got a crush on my uncles best friend but it was only a three day thing so it was no big deal ( my uncle is like 18 now he was 16 last time i went)

well, you should see the guys on my bus...they're all a bunch of pervs...every time a girl walks pass their seat, when she gets on they start whistling & whispering stuff...
...they did that to me once & I actually parasysed the dudes a little...it was funny

Haha that was funny * wipes tear*



Yeah i don't like that either because I just find it gross... Once i was on a bus ( yes another bus story) with my guy friends and a perv said something about me (insert the most disgusting thing here) and my friends got so mad they yelled at him... its good to have guy friends

I've seen guys like that too who are so overprotective about their girlfrieends they don't let them breathe

bummer that really gets on my nerves, i really can't stand it, why are they so pigs? does it boost there self-esteem or something? does it make them feel like if they were hott? i never understood that about my sex...

neither do we...
ok, another thing in my list...
someone who likes the rain!
because I love rain & well, yeah...it'd be useful to have someone who likes the rain, cause then we could play *splash* (I know I am so mature)

hey it's not immature, it's fun, splashing is fun... do it all the time with stef well when it rains, hahaha iget her so good, she ends up really wet, partly because the rain did that but i did the other part hahahaha

haha...well, actually it just rained here about half an hour ago...so I went out into the backyard & got myself drenched ahh... it'll probably make my cold worse, but o well..it was worth it!
ok...I don't like guys who are extremely over-protective...I mean when I say "Yeah, it's fine; it's just a little cut"...they have to leave it alone...it gets a bit annoying when someone fawns over little bruises...but that's just me...

yeah playing in the rain isn't childish in fact it was raining all day today and i just happened to play with my little brother in it. it was fun but he got me soacked but it was still fun.( I love the rain especially the smell of when it is about to rain and when it is raining)

me neither, i never truly understood why a guy would be so rude to a girl its not like it is going to make us like them even more...quite on the contrary.

yes guys who are rude to girls not only make us think they are pigs, but also make us burst into hysterical giggles (done that many times...)
playing in the rain is fun *drags dream guy...or as stef says...dark hair, intense dark eyed, cute dimpled, extremly funny wizard.... into rain*
i personally prefer the smell of cinammon to rain, but eithers good. *sprays fresh rain scent and cinammon on dream guy* ... much better
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Haha yea i agree that if a bus said something to me i would just laugh and keep walking
Thats just not on. i hate it too



Haha good on you Jay You paralyse those jerks



Andy i don't think anybody really understands



Yea you would think guys would be smart enough to work that out but then again some are

...adn tehn again, some aren't. *cough the pervy old lorry drivers on the way to town cough*
okay...i was jogging with my friend today, and some old guy shouted at us. like he was 50+ and we were like *jaw drop* ....i'm scared...someone help!
So to sum up,
we do not like the bus drivers who make comments, or the people who beat up the bus drivers... right... and they are added to the list of ohhh about 237 don't likes about a guy. haha. long lists...
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well soph i wonder which one is shorter... the don't likes or the do likes...

hahahaha

well em ok i would gave em the finger... oh but you'rea lay and ladies don't do that... ok i know a few who do *cough cough i'm not gonna name them casue sophies gets mad* hahaha i'm kidding soph...

i tend to fall for people who have something to talk about even if it's something stupid (i think it's better if it's stupidity talk with serious talk.. it shows how mature the girl is) cause i don't like it that all of a sudden, she doesn't know what to say...
and i like the smell after it rains... beautiful and cinnamon is awseome but the onei truly love is the smell of gardenias... ugh i love it! they smell so darn good

wow, I missed a ton in here...okay, I think we're talking about guys who are pigs, and rain, so that's what I'm going with. lol.


Great, if a guy can't explain it to us how on earth are we supposed to figure it out? lol. Okay, my story about guys who are pigs (stories?) Me and my friends walk to starbucks almost everyday after school. Most of the time we get guys who just whistle and then keep driving, and it's annoying, but they just keep going so we just blow it off. But the other day this guy pulled up behind us and like followed us in his car the whole way to starbucks, and he kept shouting very disgusting things at us. I was so freaked out. We seriously thought he was gonna get out at starbucks and follow us in, but luckily I saw my neighbor coming out (an adult neighbor) and so we went over to talk to her for a few minutes, and I guess he didn't like the presence of adults, cus he left us alone, but it was really creepy.


oooh rain! I love the rain, it's good for everything (dancing, singing, kissing, crying...) haha, your not immature Jay, I love playing in the rain.

Andy you know i'm not even going to comment on the Gardenia thing.... *cough person who names their flowers cough*

Hey i never did that to you... okay maybe a bit...

*hugs* Poor you. If that happened i would like pass out on the floor! *passes out*...clever going to talk to the neigbour
Ok now that, ( the above reason ) is why we hate pervy old men, it's scary and gross and really wrong...*crosses pervy old men off the list*
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You gave Andy the finger?? I think I missed something...lol.


Sorry Sophie, but I have to ask, why on earth were pervy old men on the list to begin with? lol. It was guys our age though, like they go to my school, I've seen them in the halls before and stuff. I seriously want to know why guys thinks its cool to be pervs...

Andy was mean to me so i had to swear at him...
Ok well pervy old men were never on the list...good point...i should be saying : *puts pervy old men on the definatly not list*
oh and...*adds pervy teeangers to definatly not list*
happy ?!
I hate really arrogant guys .. althoguh we've probably already discussed that...but i do. *shudders* jerks...
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hahaha *cough andy cough* hmmm yeah arrogant guys are dumb... , some are cool, but yet i'm not arrogant... i'm confident ok i'm much better now hahaha


yeah kristina she gave me the finger hahah and why am i all happy about it



... plus you'd probably get killed, hahaha

Andy arrogant guys are horrid... dobn't bring confidence into this...although idiocy is a turn off aswell ! (sorry everyone...really odd conversation here )
No but seriously arrogant guys need to tone it down, who on earth would like a guy (or girl ) who struts round like they own the place and nobody esle exists?!
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ok soph, i'm confident... but i don't pretend everyone else doesn't exist.. if that's what you mean by arrogance than good cause i'm not that.. phiu *wipes sweat off forehead* and the goverment own's the place hahaha, i love my randomness... i want icecream..

Confidence and arrogance are to very different thing ( as we've learnt Andy ... )
Hmm i tend to fall for guys who are loyal..if that makes sense. My friends are all for playing the field and dating as many guys as possible, but i don't think that's right...
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i agree with you on that, guys like me don't like to go around with every girl we meet.. something nice and calm, i'm tired of all the commotion in my life so and loyalty is very important when it comes when i look for a girl, i'm a bit tired of getting cheated on

*hugs* aww
I'm sorry but i think it's ridculous to cheat on someone. Breaking up with them becasue you like someone else is fine...but i mean having an affair...could you show them any less respect? !
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actually they can... cheat infront of you ... they did that to me once and it's not pretty hahaha but i really don't care anymore.. in the past maybe but now i just laugh...

What's really bad ( and very annoying) is when someone cheats and then they go around acting like the victim once they have broken up. That really get's on my nerves.

- Phoenix

i hate it when they do that, they act the victim when they clearly did it! they always find an excuse to make you look like the bad guy... i agree with you jaimie

Andy *hugs* she sounds like a hudeous, vile, low, evil bratt ...
Ok yes i agree, it's worse than cheating, acting like teh victim afetr cheating... now that is bad... okay girls who do that are just disgusting. ( sorry i haev very strcit opinions about this stuff )
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yeha well you know the story, but hey it was a while back so i hold no grudge's against her... anywho, this is supposed to be a happy thread hahaha so i tend to fall for girls who can listen..

i fall for guys who can listen too... haha ..i tend to talk quite a bit...but if someone needs me i'm always there for them.
okay i need a guy with a shoulder i can cry on (kinda goes with the listening thing )...
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ha.. someone used my shoulder to cry on on friday hahaha but i mean alot of crying... but that's what good friends are here for...
and i know you do tend to talk quite a bit hahaha i'm kidding sophie *hugs*